Crushed.

nofeardiver · 07-08-2010, 09:15 AM

It has been said here many of times, but time is the only thing that will help. I dated one girl through out high school, and right after we graduated she broke it off, i was crushed for months, maybe even years i would think of her, and just be sad for days... Heres my advice, dont dwell on it, and dude your going to be in college it sounds like dont settle unless you just think that one girl is the right one. Have fun and enjoy college. Another thing, is that you can look at her as a steping stone to the next girl or even wife. I know that i know how to treat my wife better because of that relationship i went through. Either way bro, good luck, i live in lakeland about 45 minutes from tampa, we she hit a cigar b&m down there sometime... either way good luck again...

Gophernut · 07-08-2010, 10:40 AM

Positive thoughts being sent your way! I think quite a few of us have been there done that with this sort of thing. My first wife told me she wanted a divorce on Christmas Eve on the way home from my Dad's house. Found the love of life a couple years later, and we've been married for 15 years, have a great son of 14years, and I was able to help be a big part of her daughters life who will be bringing a grand-daughter into our lives in November.
Yes it can and does suck right now, but it sounds like your landing on your feet! Keep your chin up and let us help if we can.

07-08-2010, 09:15 AM	#1
nofeardiver Feeling at Home Join Date: Aug 2009 First Name: Dan Location: Florida Posts: 561 Trading: (4)	Re: Crushed. It has been said here many of times, but time is the only thing that will help. I dated one girl through out high school, and right after we graduated she broke it off, i was crushed for months, maybe even years i would think of her, and just be sad for days... Heres my advice, dont dwell on it, and dude your going to be in college it sounds like dont settle unless you just think that one girl is the right one. Have fun and enjoy college. Another thing, is that you can look at her as a steping stone to the next girl or even wife. I know that i know how to treat my wife better because of that relationship i went through. Either way bro, good luck, i live in lakeland about 45 minutes from tampa, we she hit a cigar b&m down there sometime... either way good luck again...

07-08-2010, 10:40 AM	#2
Gophernut Have My Own Room Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Steve Location: Hudson, WI Posts: 1,661 Trading: (15)	Re: Crushed. Positive thoughts being sent your way! I think quite a few of us have been there done that with this sort of thing. My first wife told me she wanted a divorce on Christmas Eve on the way home from my Dad's house. Found the love of life a couple years later, and we've been married for 15 years, have a great son of 14years, and I was able to help be a big part of her daughters life who will be bringing a grand-daughter into our lives in November. Yes it can and does suck right now, but it sounds like your landing on your feet! Keep your chin up and let us help if we can.