legal advice needed

shilala · 06-08-2009, 02:48 PM

I learned a couple things.
1.) It's cheaper to keep her.
2.) The reason divorce is so expensive is that it's worth it.
3.) Ya gotta talk, surround yourself with friends, and listen.
4.) I think the best advice I got through the entire thing was when a friend said to me "when is enough enough?" I had been trying to find out everything she'd ever done (she was a serial cheater), and the more I looked the more it was killing me.

To this moment, I wish I had found a way to save the marriage. I count it as the greatest failure of my entire life, by a longshot.
As a result, I stayed three years longer than I should have.

The best advice I can give you is to stay married. Do everything you can. Take blame for everything, whatever it takes. And get LOTS of help. Especially from your church.

06-08-2009, 02:48 PM	#8
shilala Dear Lord, Thank You. Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Scott Posts: 13,721 Trading: (252)	Re: legal advice needed I learned a couple things. 1.) It's cheaper to keep her. 2.) The reason divorce is so expensive is that it's worth it. 3.) Ya gotta talk, surround yourself with friends, and listen. 4.) I think the best advice I got through the entire thing was when a friend said to me "when is enough enough?" I had been trying to find out everything she'd ever done (she was a serial cheater), and the more I looked the more it was killing me. To this moment, I wish I had found a way to save the marriage. I count it as the greatest failure of my entire life, by a longshot. As a result, I stayed three years longer than I should have. The best advice I can give you is to stay married. Do everything you can. Take blame for everything, whatever it takes. And get LOTS of help. Especially from your church. __________________