Life.......

Mr.Maduro · 01-09-2009, 06:48 AM

BTW, Alana can't wait to see Uncle Carlos & Aunt Clara!!

King James · 01-09-2009, 06:51 AM

because I'm young and know everything........

Not really though. Great story, Carlos.... nice morning read.

BroncoHorvath · 01-09-2009, 07:11 AM

Great post

My step-Dad is the same way as your Dad and I always try to cheer him up, except he is very stubborn.
On the other hand, I have a really good friend that is 83 (BTW I'm 43), and he's one of the most cheerful person you could meet. He's 83 and he has and had his share of health issues, but it doesn't bring him down, and it keeps him looking young. One of his favorite quotes is "Is it really that bad", and really if you look around, there are lots of people that are a worse off that us and don't complain.
I consider myself a very positive person, and mostly because of tragic events I've had to endure. That's why I also have the same attitude as your supermarket man.
We only have one life, and it's a pretty short one, so don't stress over the little things.

icehog3 · 01-09-2009, 08:34 AM

Thanks Carlos. We shouldn't sweat the small things, life is too short.

Mr.Maduro · 01-09-2009, 08:35 AM

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Originally Posted by icehog3

Thanks Carlos. We shouldn't sweat the small things, life is too short.

That reminds me of an old fave of mine.... "Don't sweat the petty things and don't pet the sweaty things!"

lenguamor · 01-10-2009, 12:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Mr.Maduro

That reminds me of an old fave of mine.... "Don't sweat the petty things and don't pet the sweaty things!"

Ew.

Skywalker · 01-10-2009, 10:46 AM

Well said Carlos!!!

Since taking up Cigars, I have relaxed about life a whole lot!!!!

01-10-2009, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr.Maduro

That reminds me of an old fave of mine.... "Don't sweat the petty things and don't pet the sweaty things!"

Lol,,,I like that and will put that on my fridge! Thx

Sailkat · 01-10-2009, 03:54 PM

We all have so many blessings in our lives.....including all our friends here at the Asylum. Sometimes we get so caught up in things and that we forget to take the time to enjoy our blessings and be grateful. I try to live every day as the gift that it is. Some days I do better than others, but I always try.

Thank for the thread.

Starscream · 01-09-2009, 08:36 AM

Well said.

chippewastud79 · 01-09-2009, 08:40 AM

My old coach used to remind us everyday we would complain about being sore or tired how fortunate we were to even be there. We are all fortunate, we all woke up this morning, some people didn't.

01-09-2009, 09:49 AM

Great post. I even wondered if we shop the same supermarket because there was this old fella there (had to be in his '80's) who stopped to talk to mrsreindeer & I and share some jokes (even pictured comics and positive phrases he had in his pocket) because he was an advocate of positivity and wanted to share humor and laughter.

My Dad is in his mid-'60's and is a completely changed man from the fellow I was raised by. When my parents were together, he was a workaholic and never spent time with me. After the divorce, when I was 11, I finally got to know my Dad. Now he's my best friend. And he wrote this for his local Charleston paper and I'd like to share it with you:

More Gratitude

"Several years ago, my life began a remarkable transformation for the better. I was inspired by the pastor of the church my wife and I attended in Los Angeles. I came to understand truly – and more importantly to practice – gratitude. Of the hundreds of examples, I recall particularly arriving at our hew home on Daniel Island over two years ago and asking: “What have I done, Lord, for which you have so richly rewarded me?”

On Thanksgiving, I recited grace at our family dinner. It presented once again the opportunity for me to express my profound gratitude to almighty God for having given to me my beloved family, friends and others who have touched my life; my pets and Gods’ other creatures who share the land, air and streams with me; the beautiful dawns and sunsets; my health; and especially for having given me every precious moment of life.

Then we prayed for others less fortunate, for those who serve others in such a variety of ways, for our country and for world peace.

It then occurred to me, if everyone were to practice gratitude, all of those prayers will have been answered."

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Originally Posted by BroncoHorvath

We only have one life, and it's a pretty short one, so don't stress over the little things.

GKitty · 01-09-2009, 10:07 AM

My grandmother has always told me, "When you think your life is bad, look up the street, look down the street, and look across the street. Somebody's always fighting something bigger than you are." She's 76; has had a heart attack and a "minor" stroke; outlived her husband, two children, and a grandchild. Even through all that, she's has believed that everyday is a gift and has lived it to the fullest.

It's easy to get wrapped up in the "I have to"s of life, but the reality is this. I don't HAVE to do anything. I get to. I get to go to work. I get to help one of my best friends plan her wedding. I get to help my stepmom move tomorrow... in 30 degree weather. As Mr. Reindeer Sr wrote, it's all about gratitude.

Thank you so much for this thread. It was exactly what I needed today.

n3uka · 01-09-2009, 10:15 AM

Great reminder of a lesson I learned long ago.
My grandfather would wake up every morning and say hallelujah another day.
He lived to be 94 and was always in a positive mood.

Might have to get our parents together next time I am down.
Mine are fast approaching 80 and act like they are in there 60's.

01-09-2009, 06:48 AM	#1
Mr.Maduro In Domino Confido Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Patrick Location: La Casa del Blueface Posts: 2,905 Trading: (83)	Re: Life....... BTW, Alana can't wait to see Uncle Carlos & Aunt Clara!! __________________ "Patrick...You low-rent f#@k!!!" - MACMS (Shack V)

01-09-2009, 06:51 AM	#2
King James Regard Me! Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Jim Location: Dark Side Of The Moon Posts: 2,565 Trading: (2)	Re: Life....... because I'm young and know everything........ Not really though. Great story, Carlos.... nice morning read. __________________ Mob Herfin' Since 2006

01-09-2009, 07:11 AM	#3
BroncoHorvath Life is Great ! Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Steve Location: on the water.... Posts: 412 Trading: (6)	Re: Life....... Great post My step-Dad is the same way as your Dad and I always try to cheer him up, except he is very stubborn. On the other hand, I have a really good friend that is 83 (BTW I'm 43), and he's one of the most cheerful person you could meet. He's 83 and he has and had his share of health issues, but it doesn't bring him down, and it keeps him looking young. One of his favorite quotes is "Is it really that bad", and really if you look around, there are lots of people that are a worse off that us and don't complain. I consider myself a very positive person, and mostly because of tragic events I've had to endure. That's why I also have the same attitude as your supermarket man. We only have one life, and it's a pretty short one, so don't stress over the little things. __________________ There's nothing like a great cigar and being Canadian

01-09-2009, 08:34 AM	#4
icehog3 Admiral Douchebag Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Tom Location: Clermont, Kentucky Posts: 71,777 Trading: (60)	Re: Life....... Thanks Carlos. We shouldn't sweat the small things, life is too short. __________________ Thanks Dave, Julian, James, Kelly, Peter, Gerry, Dave, Mo, Frank, Týr and Mr. Mark!

01-10-2009, 10:46 AM	#7
Skywalker BABOTL Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Dice Location: Galaxy Far Far Away Posts: 10,168 Trading: (18)	Re: Life....... Well said Carlos!!! Since taking up Cigars, I have relaxed about life a whole lot!!!! __________________ Smoke what you like!!!

01-10-2009, 03:54 PM	#9
Sailkat Smooth sailing Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Kat Location: St. Clair Shores, MI Posts: 638 Trading: (5)	Re: Life....... We all have so many blessings in our lives.....including all our friends here at the Asylum. Sometimes we get so caught up in things and that we forget to take the time to enjoy our blessings and be grateful. I try to live every day as the gift that it is. Some days I do better than others, but I always try. Thank for the thread.

01-09-2009, 08:36 AM	#10
Starscream Knowhutimean, Vern? Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Andy Location: In a little town somewhere in the USA Posts: 10,237 Trading: (4)	Re: Life....... Well said. __________________ Insert quote here.

01-09-2009, 08:40 AM	#11
chippewastud79 Fatter than you! Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Larry Location: A little place called home. Posts: 5,397 Trading: (44)	Re: Life....... My old coach used to remind us everyday we would complain about being sore or tired how fortunate we were to even be there. We are all fortunate, we all woke up this morning, some people didn't. __________________ If we weren't supposed to eat animals, then how come they're made of meat? You can never have too many cigars, they are like an investment in good times.

01-09-2009, 10:07 AM	#13
GKitty JAFO Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Crystal Location: Olathe, KS Posts: 1,938 Trading: (8)	Re: Life....... My grandmother has always told me, "When you think your life is bad, look up the street, look down the street, and look across the street. Somebody's always fighting something bigger than you are." She's 76; has had a heart attack and a "minor" stroke; outlived her husband, two children, and a grandchild. Even through all that, she's has believed that everyday is a gift and has lived it to the fullest. It's easy to get wrapped up in the "I have to"s of life, but the reality is this. I don't HAVE to do anything. I get to. I get to go to work. I get to help one of my best friends plan her wedding. I get to help my stepmom move tomorrow... in 30 degree weather. As Mr. Reindeer Sr wrote, it's all about gratitude. Thank you so much for this thread. It was exactly what I needed today. __________________ A lost SOTL wandering the weird landscape of domesticity.

01-09-2009, 10:15 AM	#14
n3uka Feeling at Home Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: The house on the corner Posts: 685 Trading: (30)	Re: Life....... Great reminder of a lesson I learned long ago. My grandfather would wake up every morning and say hallelujah another day. He lived to be 94 and was always in a positive mood. Might have to get our parents together next time I am down. Mine are fast approaching 80 and act like they are in there 60's.