I need advice from you parents

colinb913 · 08-07-2010, 05:10 PM

I have been hunting with friends, and shooting with friends, however I want to take it farther. I already own a few pellet guns, and shoot target with them a lot but I want to get a few better target guns (savage or the like). As in a real gun. I am a great shot (a grizzly dip can from 100 yards with a pellet gun). I need help convincing my parents that I can take this seriously as a sport, and it's something I truly enjoy. Any tips from parents before I jump right into this with my stubborn parents? Thanks so much guys, y'all are like family to me.

Brutus2600 · 08-07-2010, 05:31 PM

In all honesty the convincing it took was for me to finally move out. My grandpa and uncle were always gun-toting Texans, and I always went shooting with them, but even though I was old enough to own a gun my dad was dead-set that no guns were allowed in his house.

Anyway...not much help for ya, but just thought I'd share the fact that it might not happen until you have your own place if he's pretty set in his ways.

colinb913 · 08-07-2010, 05:39 PM

That's pretty close to my dad. "nothing comes good of guns". I just need to find a way to prove him wrong.

pektel · 08-07-2010, 05:39 PM

my advice is to cut the cord and stake your own claim. That way you only answer to you. Well, you and the cops.

colinb913 · 08-07-2010, 05:45 PM

Still in highschool..

bsmokin · 08-07-2010, 05:51 PM

"You'll shoot your eye out"

Sorry... I just had to.

colinb913 · 08-07-2010, 05:53 PM

That was moms first reaction.. After seeing my shot she wants me to get into it Now.

bobarian · 08-07-2010, 06:05 PM

Take your dad to the range.

Cigarcop · 08-07-2010, 06:10 PM

Join a Rifle/Pistol club in your area. They have programs and shooting events for the beginners to advanced marksmen.

colinb913 · 08-07-2010, 06:10 PM

I wish, how should I get him there???

Ranger_B · 08-07-2010, 06:12 PM

Well I am still starting out with this whole parent thing as Step parent goes. However, in my Day job I feel as though I act as part parent part leader to many of my younger guys. I have taught many of them to drive ect. Guns are a great responsibility and if you have already stepped into a pellet gun you are already there. It is still a projectile that could still cause harm. I would go to gun facts.info and study the arguments you know your parents are to make and then arm yourself with the info to better your argument. I dont know your whole family dynamic or anything however as you will see the older you get the more you need to be informed before getting into any discussion. Guidance counselor hat off. Best of luck. I know the NRA and many schools do .22LR target classes and matches might be worth bringing them to one with you.

Cigarcop · 08-07-2010, 06:13 PM

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Originally Posted by colinb913

I wish, how should I get him there???

This ain't rocket science..."hey dad, I reallly would like to join a rifle club and learn how to shoot and I'd like you to tag along"..then tell him you love him...how could he say no.

NCRadioMan · 08-07-2010, 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Cigarcop

This ain't rocket science..."hey dad, I reallly would like to join a rifle club and learn how to shoot and I'd like you to tag along"..then tell him you love him...how could he say no.

That's as good as it gets, imo.

If he still says no, you will simply have to wait until you are on your own.

I love to tell people who are against guns that free people own guns, slaves don't.

Cigarcop · 08-07-2010, 06:46 PM

Then tell his this is what you were thinking about buying!!!

bobarian · 08-07-2010, 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Cigarcop

This ain't rocket science..."hey dad, I reallly would like to join a rifle club and learn how to shoot and I'd like you to tag along"..then tell him you love him...how could he say no.

Tell him that you would like to take the safety classes with him.

When you are looking to buy your first gun, stick to something simple like a Ruger 10/22. Stick to iron sites for a while and maybe ask for a scope for Christmas. .22 is a relatively inexpensive gun to shoot and fun for you both.

mosesbotbol · 08-07-2010, 07:29 PM

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Originally Posted by colinb913

That's pretty close to my dad. "nothing comes good of guns". I just need to find a way to prove him wrong.

Listen to him. That is not to say guns can prevent much worse situations from happening too.

If you have to respect the rules of the house you are living in. If guns are that important of an issue, perhaps you can lock them at a gun club or just move out.

I love shooting guns and my dad is avid collector, but I would not own one and repsect all sides of the fense when it comes to gun ownership.

08-07-2010, 07:52 PM

I would go to a local hunter's safety course. They are usually provided by game and fish you can contact your local office(google your county). After that tell your dad what you did and if that doesn't work then move out on your 21st birthday and get a concealed weapons license and then your parents never know that your packing heat problem solved.

colinb913 · 08-07-2010, 08:08 PM

Well I was out shooting my air rifle in the back.. He actually came out and joined me. I think my mom gave him a push, he seemed to enjoy the challenge of hitting the bulls eye. I plan on sticking with a small caliber .22 or .17 hmr. Nothing like the .50 someone suggested.

i would have to buy a cabinet or safe. But I think if he sees me dropping cash on safety first before the gun he would be a little more comfortable with a gun in his house. Any ways, I think i can get him to shoot with me a little tomorrow night too, just keep working at it. We defiantly showed some progress tonight, guys thanks fr all the advice.

Riff Raff · 08-07-2010, 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by bobarian

Tell him that you would like to take the safety classes with him.

I agree with this suggestion as well. By doing this, it demonstrates a few things. One: you are serious enough about this that you are willing to do what it takes to be safe and educated.

Two: That you want to do this with him as well. This is something fathers and sons have been doing for a long, long time. It is excellent bonding.

Three: The main concerns parents have is for safety. This course gives you both the proper tools you need to understand firearm safety and how to conduct yourselves when handling firearms.

Just my $0.02.

colinb913 · 08-07-2010, 08:19 PM

Well in the boy scouts we took a safety course, so he knows aim well off on that, however I will have to retake the course to get a hunting license.

08-07-2010, 05:10 PM	#1
colinb913 Workin' at a Cigar Shop Join Date: Feb 2010 First Name: Colin Location: Indiana Posts: 540 Trading: (1)	I need advice from you parents I have been hunting with friends, and shooting with friends, however I want to take it farther. I already own a few pellet guns, and shoot target with them a lot but I want to get a few better target guns (savage or the like). As in a real gun. I am a great shot (a grizzly dip can from 100 yards with a pellet gun). I need help convincing my parents that I can take this seriously as a sport, and it's something I truly enjoy. Any tips from parents before I jump right into this with my stubborn parents? Thanks so much guys, y'all are like family to me. __________________ Carpe Diem.

08-07-2010, 05:31 PM	#2
Brutus2600 Your resident lancerHO Join Date: Apr 2010 First Name: Brian Location: Fort Worth, TX Posts: 2,063 Trading: (46)	Re: I need advice from you parents In all honesty the convincing it took was for me to finally move out. My grandpa and uncle were always gun-toting Texans, and I always went shooting with them, but even though I was old enough to own a gun my dad was dead-set that no guns were allowed in his house. Anyway...not much help for ya, but just thought I'd share the fact that it might not happen until you have your own place if he's pretty set in his ways.

08-07-2010, 05:39 PM	#3
colinb913 Workin' at a Cigar Shop Join Date: Feb 2010 First Name: Colin Location: Indiana Posts: 540 Trading: (1)	Re: I need advice from you parents That's pretty close to my dad. "nothing comes good of guns". I just need to find a way to prove him wrong. __________________ Carpe Diem.

08-07-2010, 05:39 PM	#4
pektel I'm nuts for the place Join Date: Jul 2010 First Name: Peter Location: Grand Rapids, MN Posts: 4,320 Trading: (28)	Re: I need advice from you parents my advice is to cut the cord and stake your own claim. That way you only answer to you. Well, you and the cops. __________________ The problem is not the problem. The problem is your ATTITUDE about the problem.

08-07-2010, 05:45 PM	#5
colinb913 Workin' at a Cigar Shop Join Date: Feb 2010 First Name: Colin Location: Indiana Posts: 540 Trading: (1)	Re: I need advice from you parents Still in highschool.. __________________ Carpe Diem.

08-07-2010, 05:51 PM	#6
bsmokin Slippin... Fast. Join Date: Sep 2009 First Name: Bryan Location: South Jersey Posts: 616 Trading: (15)	Re: I need advice from you parents "You'll shoot your eye out" Sorry... I just had to.

08-07-2010, 05:53 PM	#7
colinb913 Workin' at a Cigar Shop Join Date: Feb 2010 First Name: Colin Location: Indiana Posts: 540 Trading: (1)	Re: I need advice from you parents That was moms first reaction.. After seeing my shot she wants me to get into it Now. __________________ Carpe Diem.

08-07-2010, 06:05 PM	#8
bobarian Cranky Habanophile Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Wine Country Posts: 8,869 Trading: (51)	Re: I need advice from you parents Take your dad to the range.

08-07-2010, 06:10 PM	#9
Cigarcop Wishin I Was Fishin Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Pa, In a treestand Posts: 1,434 Trading: (40)	Re: I need advice from you parents Join a Rifle/Pistol club in your area. They have programs and shooting events for the beginners to advanced marksmen.

08-07-2010, 06:12 PM	#11
Ranger_B Have My Own Room Join Date: Apr 2009 First Name: Frank Location: North Carolina Posts: 1,321 Trading: (31)	Re: I need advice from you parents Well I am still starting out with this whole parent thing as Step parent goes. However, in my Day job I feel as though I act as part parent part leader to many of my younger guys. I have taught many of them to drive ect. Guns are a great responsibility and if you have already stepped into a pellet gun you are already there. It is still a projectile that could still cause harm. I would go to gun facts.info and study the arguments you know your parents are to make and then arm yourself with the info to better your argument. I dont know your whole family dynamic or anything however as you will see the older you get the more you need to be informed before getting into any discussion. Guidance counselor hat off. Best of luck. I know the NRA and many schools do .22LR target classes and matches might be worth bringing them to one with you.

08-07-2010, 06:46 PM	#14
Cigarcop Wishin I Was Fishin Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Pa, In a treestand Posts: 1,434 Trading: (40)	Re: I need advice from you parents Then tell his this is what you were thinking about buying!!!

08-07-2010, 07:52 PM	#17
ridenlive Guest Posts: n/a	Re: I need advice from you parents I would go to a local hunter's safety course. They are usually provided by game and fish you can contact your local office(google your county). After that tell your dad what you did and if that doesn't work then move out on your 21st birthday and get a concealed weapons license and then your parents never know that your packing heat problem solved.

08-07-2010, 08:08 PM	#18
colinb913 Workin' at a Cigar Shop Join Date: Feb 2010 First Name: Colin Location: Indiana Posts: 540 Trading: (1)	Re: I need advice from you parents Well I was out shooting my air rifle in the back.. He actually came out and joined me. I think my mom gave him a push, he seemed to enjoy the challenge of hitting the bulls eye. I plan on sticking with a small caliber .22 or .17 hmr. Nothing like the .50 someone suggested. i would have to buy a cabinet or safe. But I think if he sees me dropping cash on safety first before the gun he would be a little more comfortable with a gun in his house. Any ways, I think i can get him to shoot with me a little tomorrow night too, just keep working at it. We defiantly showed some progress tonight, guys thanks fr all the advice. __________________ Carpe Diem.

08-07-2010, 08:19 PM	#20
colinb913 Workin' at a Cigar Shop Join Date: Feb 2010 First Name: Colin Location: Indiana Posts: 540 Trading: (1)	Re: I need advice from you parents Well in the boy scouts we took a safety course, so he knows aim well off on that, however I will have to retake the course to get a hunting license. __________________ Carpe Diem.