cigar shop lounge etiquette? - Page 2

cort · 12-21-2009, 11:36 PM

wait,...what?

icehog3 · 12-21-2009, 11:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Cort

wait,...what?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8lXdyD2Yzls

Doctorossi · 12-22-2009, 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by icehog3

I would never think of smoking at a B&M without spending some cash there.

12-22-2009, 12:03 AM

Hahahah, that video is just great! And just to clarify I never meant go and purchase nothing and smoke in there store. Hense the bring one, and buy. They are running a business and one that's probably gotten quite tough lately at that.

mosesbotbol · 12-22-2009, 05:07 AM

Yes, they are in the business to sell cigars and cigar accessories. It depends on how often you go there, how busy they are, and your relationship with them.

One of the best things a B&M can have, is people in the store! He would be foolish to turn away people regardless of where they bought a cigar. If you are to bring you own, just buy something or leave $5 for a pack of matches... In the end, he made his money and you got your cigars.

If they are insistent on only smoking their cigars, I think they have some bigger issues to deal with at their B&M. Never turn away a potential customer in a dying industry. I could be smoking my cigar and realize I need a new humidor, talked me into a box of cigars... As long as their in the store, they have an opportunity to sell and that should not be forsaken by any smart B&M owner. Too many B&M owners get caught up with the trivial and miss the big picture.

Local laws may be the only exception.

68TriShield · 12-22-2009, 06:06 AM

Good advice here. Just be fair and considerate of the shop owners and all will be fine

icantbejon · 12-22-2009, 06:59 AM

We have one local joint around here that is not very open to smoking outside sticks. They have a "If you didn't buy it here, don't smoke it here" sign up. We have stopped going there. Our new hangout is open to any type of smokes, and in return we all give him the courtesy of buying something from him when we head in. He actually has lockers inside that people can fill with whatever they want for a very low yearly rental fee of $100.

PeteSB75 · 12-22-2009, 07:04 AM

To be honest, I don't buy that much at the shop where I am a member. I pay $700 yearly membership fee that includes use of a locker. I have bought a few bundles of their house stuff to send to a friend of mine in Iraq, and I am using their roller at my wedding reception next year. But I don't buy from them every time I am in - usually once or twice a week. I smoke my own cigars that I keep in my locker.

kelmac07 · 12-22-2009, 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by icantbejon

We have one local joint around here that is not very open to smoking outside sticks. They have a "If you didn't buy it here, don't smoke it here" sign up. We have stopped going there. Our new hangout is open to any type of smokes, and in return we all give him the courtesy of buying something from him when we head in. He actually has lockers inside that people can fill with whatever they want for a very low yearly rental fee of $100.

Hmmm...wonder what joint that is?? Shorty...

Footbag · 12-22-2009, 10:14 AM

I will always buy a cigar if I plan on smoking in the establishment. One B&M I frequent has an amazing lounge with comfortable furniture numerous TV's and just an amazing atmosphere. Of course, they are considerably more expensive then the other local B&M's. Even though I could probably save money by buying online and smoking elsewhere, I still think the atmosphere makes it worth it. Now I may not purchase boxes from them, but I have no problem overpaying for a few sticks and enjoying their store. I even drag my wife in there and make her smoke with me.

Plus, at home, I always grab CC's. When I'm out at the B&M, it's almost an opportunity to try something new.

tedrodgerscpa · 12-22-2009, 10:39 AM

I can't add much that hasn't already been said (what's new?)

But, I can rant in an etiquette thread, right?

There are two shops close to me that are very well stocked and have comfortable smoking areas. Both have bar areas.

One shop has no policy against bringing your own cigars.The other one does.

I almost never buy an NC that retails for over $6, and I never drink alcohol. I still wind up spending $20 or more every time I go in. And, I always tip if I drink coffee.

In these tough economic times, care to guess who gets my $20?

Snake Hips · 12-22-2009, 04:37 PM

Most people say you should buy something, but I usually don't in my case. My B&M excises a membership fee to use the lounge, so I consider that my 'purchase.' I pay to smoke there, so that's enough to me.

icehog3 · 12-22-2009, 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Snake Hips

Most people say you should buy something, but I usually don't in my case. My B&M excises a membership fee to use the lounge, so I consider that my 'purchase.' I pay to smoke there, so that's enough to me.

That's a whole different story if the B&M charges a hefty membership fee, IMHO.

Snake Hips · 12-22-2009, 07:37 PM

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Originally Posted by icehog3

That's a whole different story if the B&M charges a hefty membership fee, IMHO.

Indeed. Kind of bunk in a way, but I do labor in place of the charge.

ScottieM · 12-22-2009, 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by icehog3

That's a whole different story if the B&M charges a hefty membership fee, IMHO.

I would also consider renting a Locker from a shop a "Membership fee".

macpappy · 12-23-2009, 06:37 AM

Normally I don't smoke something I just purchased at a B&M. I find I enjoy new purchases after they have rested in my humidor for at least a couple of weeks. There is a couple of B&M's I go to that have smoking lounges and when I visit these businesses, I purchase several sticks and then go into the lounge and light one I have brought with me. No one has ever said anything negative to me about doing this.

I was asked once, "Are you enjoying your cigar?" And I said, "Yes, thank you."

Of course the exception to this is when a cigar event is being held. Then I feel obligated to smoke what they are promoting.

maverickdrinker · 12-22-2009, 05:32 PM

We don't have the privledge of smoking at a B&M in Canada however, I've always enjoyed going to a B&M in the US.

I always make sure to find out who the owner/manager is and introduce myself and hand him a cigar. I am not that knowledgable in NCs so I ask for their assistance and find them to be very helpful.

The most I've ever spent at B&M was at Casa Fuente. That magical combination of great mojitos, good ambience and smoking hot waitresses (that are actually very nice to talk to) is killer. Didn't buy a stick though. Cocktails were another story. LOL

pmwz · 12-23-2009, 06:48 AM

the lounge at my local b+m is at ground level + downstairs. The humidor is upstairs. The staff downstairs doesnt know what i buy upstairs. If the b+m doesnt carry the cigar that you are smoking take the band off

Whynot · 12-23-2009, 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted by pmwz

the lounge at my local b+m is at ground level + downstairs. The humidor is upstairs. The staff downstairs doesnt know what i buy upstairs. If the b+m doesnt carry the cigar that you are smoking take the band off

Where at in Koln? The only place I have found there(although I admit I have not spent much time there) is the Davidoff place close to the Dom.

Drazzil · 12-26-2009, 07:31 PM

All the places I have been in have a policy of "bring what you want but buy something" Now I dont go around abusing that policy like some people who buy a two dollar stick and then turn around and spend the next five hours burning four $20 dollar sticks.

The last place I went to I actually got chewed out by the store owner for "bringing in outside sticks" when I actually bought those sticks at his shop. Needless to say I no longer frequent that place.

The way I see it is, if I support the place by buying there or smoking what I bought there, the B&M owner has no right to dictate what I smoke there. I don't frequent places where this is not the policy.

12-21-2009, 11:36 PM	#1
cort ◤◢◣◥ Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Gary Posts: 4,478 Trading: (41)	Re: cigar shop lounge etiquette? wait,...what?

12-22-2009, 12:03 AM	#4
strider Guest Posts: n/a	Re: cigar shop lounge etiquette? Hahahah, that video is just great! And just to clarify I never meant go and purchase nothing and smoke in there store. Hense the bring one, and buy. They are running a business and one that's probably gotten quite tough lately at that.

12-22-2009, 05:07 AM	#5
mosesbotbol That's a Corgi Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Moses Location: Boston Posts: 6,171 Trading: (6)	Re: cigar shop lounge etiquette? Yes, they are in the business to sell cigars and cigar accessories. It depends on how often you go there, how busy they are, and your relationship with them. One of the best things a B&M can have, is people in the store! He would be foolish to turn away people regardless of where they bought a cigar. If you are to bring you own, just buy something or leave $5 for a pack of matches... In the end, he made his money and you got your cigars. If they are insistent on only smoking their cigars, I think they have some bigger issues to deal with at their B&M. Never turn away a potential customer in a dying industry. I could be smoking my cigar and realize I need a new humidor, talked me into a box of cigars... As long as their in the store, they have an opportunity to sell and that should not be forsaken by any smart B&M owner. Too many B&M owners get caught up with the trivial and miss the big picture. Local laws may be the only exception. __________________ Port Wine & Claret \| British Cars \| Welsh Corgi's

12-22-2009, 06:06 AM	#6
68TriShield Got Torque? Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Dave Location: Maryland Posts: 7,194 Trading: (40)	Re: cigar shop lounge etiquette? Good advice here. Just be fair and considerate of the shop owners and all will be fine

12-22-2009, 06:59 AM	#7
icantbejon Have My Own Room Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Jon Location: Chester, VA Posts: 1,219 Trading: (10)	Re: cigar shop lounge etiquette? We have one local joint around here that is not very open to smoking outside sticks. They have a "If you didn't buy it here, don't smoke it here" sign up. We have stopped going there. Our new hangout is open to any type of smokes, and in return we all give him the courtesy of buying something from him when we head in. He actually has lockers inside that people can fill with whatever they want for a very low yearly rental fee of $100. __________________ "Learn to pay attention. Life is hard.....it's even more challenging when you're stupid."

12-22-2009, 07:04 AM	#8
PeteSB75 Have My Own Room Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Pete Location: CT Posts: 1,674 Trading: (18)	Re: cigar shop lounge etiquette? To be honest, I don't buy that much at the shop where I am a member. I pay $700 yearly membership fee that includes use of a locker. I have bought a few bundles of their house stuff to send to a friend of mine in Iraq, and I am using their roller at my wedding reception next year. But I don't buy from them every time I am in - usually once or twice a week. I smoke my own cigars that I keep in my locker. __________________ Formerly Malik23

12-22-2009, 10:14 AM	#10
Footbag I Need My Space Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Adam Location: NEPA Posts: 1,216 Trading: (7)	Re: cigar shop lounge etiquette? I will always buy a cigar if I plan on smoking in the establishment. One B&M I frequent has an amazing lounge with comfortable furniture numerous TV's and just an amazing atmosphere. Of course, they are considerably more expensive then the other local B&M's. Even though I could probably save money by buying online and smoking elsewhere, I still think the atmosphere makes it worth it. Now I may not purchase boxes from them, but I have no problem overpaying for a few sticks and enjoying their store. I even drag my wife in there and make her smoke with me. Plus, at home, I always grab CC's. When I'm out at the B&M, it's almost an opportunity to try something new.

12-22-2009, 10:39 AM	#11
tedrodgerscpa Palmetto State Herf Crew! Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Ted Location: Atlanta Posts: 1,712 Trading: (87)	Re: cigar shop lounge etiquette? I can't add much that hasn't already been said (what's new?) But, I can rant in an etiquette thread, right? There are two shops close to me that are very well stocked and have comfortable smoking areas. Both have bar areas. One shop has no policy against bringing your own cigars.The other one does. I almost never buy an NC that retails for over $6, and I never drink alcohol. I still wind up spending $20 or more every time I go in. And, I always tip if I drink coffee. In these tough economic times, care to guess who gets my $20? __________________ Everyday I'm shufflin...

12-22-2009, 04:37 PM	#12
Snake Hips Götterdämmerung Join Date: Nov 2008 First Name: Tyler Location: Directly above the center of the Earth Posts: 1,013 Trading: (10)	Re: cigar shop lounge etiquette? Most people say you should buy something, but I usually don't in my case. My B&M excises a membership fee to use the lounge, so I consider that my 'purchase.' I pay to smoke there, so that's enough to me.

12-23-2009, 06:37 AM	#16
macpappy Rider on the storm. Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Slidell, LA Posts: 851 Trading: (0)	Re: cigar shop lounge etiquette? Normally I don't smoke something I just purchased at a B&M. I find I enjoy new purchases after they have rested in my humidor for at least a couple of weeks. There is a couple of B&M's I go to that have smoking lounges and when I visit these businesses, I purchase several sticks and then go into the lounge and light one I have brought with me. No one has ever said anything negative to me about doing this. I was asked once, "Are you enjoying your cigar?" And I said, "Yes, thank you." Of course the exception to this is when a cigar event is being held. Then I feel obligated to smoke what they are promoting. __________________ WARNING: I am a Southern White Male. I have a brain and I know how to use it.

12-22-2009, 05:32 PM	#17
maverickdrinker I'm nuts for the place Join Date: Nov 2008 First Name: art Location: Toronto, Ontario Posts: 2,590 Trading: (15)	Re: cigar shop lounge etiquette? We don't have the privledge of smoking at a B&M in Canada however, I've always enjoyed going to a B&M in the US. I always make sure to find out who the owner/manager is and introduce myself and hand him a cigar. I am not that knowledgable in NCs so I ask for their assistance and find them to be very helpful. The most I've ever spent at B&M was at Casa Fuente. That magical combination of great mojitos, good ambience and smoking hot waitresses (that are actually very nice to talk to) is killer. Didn't buy a stick though. Cocktails were another story. LOL

12-23-2009, 06:48 AM	#18
pmwz Adjusting to the Life Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: cologne Posts: 372 Trading: (0)	Re: cigar shop lounge etiquette? the lounge at my local b+m is at ground level + downstairs. The humidor is upstairs. The staff downstairs doesnt know what i buy upstairs. If the b+m doesnt carry the cigar that you are smoking take the band off

12-26-2009, 07:31 PM	#20
Drazzil Adjusting to the Life Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: David Location: Boozetown Posts: 355 Trading: (31)	Re: cigar shop lounge etiquette? All the places I have been in have a policy of "bring what you want but buy something" Now I dont go around abusing that policy like some people who buy a two dollar stick and then turn around and spend the next five hours burning four $20 dollar sticks. The last place I went to I actually got chewed out by the store owner for "bringing in outside sticks" when I actually bought those sticks at his shop. Needless to say I no longer frequent that place. The way I see it is, if I support the place by buying there or smoking what I bought there, the B&M owner has no right to dictate what I smoke there. I don't frequent places where this is not the policy.