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Old 04-30-2010, 06:16 PM   #1
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So I just looked into my humis and crunched the real numbers.

167 total
42 bought
125 gifted

about 75% of my cigars have been gifted.
WOW, only 167 SEE-GARS? Looks like we might have to get a large scale bombing run together
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Old 05-01-2010, 11:08 AM   #2
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So I just looked into my humis and crunched the real numbers.

167 total
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about 75% of my cigars have been gifted.


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Old 05-01-2010, 11:31 AM   #3
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Old 05-01-2010, 12:26 PM   #4
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You have a 167 total cigars in your humidor/humidors? You animal! And here, I figured you were struggling to have cigars.
Just the simple fact of what you say, led me to believe you had fewer than that.

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To most around here, that IS a small numbers.
A large scale bombing run? Hmmm. And yes, compared to some, that is a small number. I know I have more, but exactly how many? Good question!

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Old 05-01-2010, 11:20 AM   #5
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I used to do this, but in my situation, I need all the cigars I can get. In fact I'd say 80% of my entire cigar collection has been gifted to me. It is really by the generousity of this forum that I have continued to enjoy this hobby for so long. To honor that, I will never regift a cigar given to me unless another BOTL is in need. That's when my cigars can be regifted, but my gifted cigars will never go out in any maws pifs or bombs.
This pretty much the gist of it for me. Most of what I smoke was gifted to me from everyone here. In turn, much of what I buy is gifted to others here. I find a time and a place for each of the sticks given to me.
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Old 04-30-2010, 05:19 PM   #6
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Meh. They exist to be enjoyed. If someone's gonna enjoy them that much more than you, I say go for it. (with the "first taste" caveat.)
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Old 04-30-2010, 05:21 PM   #7
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I would not "re-gift" them, but I would give them to a guest to smoke at my house.
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Old 04-30-2010, 05:25 PM   #8
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I don't have too many people gifting me cigars, because I'm basically an @sshole. But on the occasions that I've had somebody hand me sticks, and there are some included that aren't what I'd smoke...I just tell them on the spot. I thank them for their generosity, and suggest that they hold onto whatever sticks I know I won't smoke.
If it's a bomb...then it's a different story. I have a hard time parting with something that was given to me. So if there are sticks included in a bomb that aren't what I prefer...they'll go into my 100 count desktop humi for safe keeping...until the day I'm open minded enough to try something different, or somebody visiting chooses it out of that humi.

Sending them to the troops is the best use of cigars you know you won't smoke, in my opinion.
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Old 04-30-2010, 05:50 PM   #9
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I have handed out cigars that were gifted to me but I have always tried to share where it came from.
Like for instance I got a couple of mild cigars that gifted to me that I have already tried and I knew Bill (my neighbor who is on here somewhere) liked the milder stuff so I passed them on to him.

I am very grateful for everything I have gotten from everyone here from knowledge to cigars, I hope I never upset anyone in doing that.
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Old 04-30-2010, 05:56 PM   #10
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I only re-gift things I have tried or have multiples of. I don't get offended if my friends give away ones I gifted them. We all have different taste and sharing makes all of this fun.
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Old 02-24-2011, 11:49 AM   #11
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I was pondering this very question recently. I see nothing wrong with re-gifting. If I gave you something with stipulations it wasn't really a gift.

Now what do you all say about selling gifted cigars??
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Old 02-24-2011, 12:00 PM   #12
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Personally see nothing wrong with re-gifting at all, selling a gifted cigar is another matter.

I have many times re-gifted cigars someone has given me if I know I will never smoke them(especially good place to gift them is to the troops)
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Old 02-24-2011, 12:12 PM   #13
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Personally see nothing wrong with re-gifting at all, selling a gifted cigar is another matter.
Agreed.

I don't re-gift unless I ask the person that gave it to me if they mind. Only happened a few times.
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Agreed.

I don't re-gift unless I ask the person that gave it to me if they mind. Only happened a few times.
Your positioned has changed over the years?
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Personally see nothing wrong with re-gifting at all, selling a gifted cigar is another matter.

I have many times re-gifted cigars someone has given me if I know I will never smoke them(especially good place to gift them is to the troops)
Can you elaborate, please?
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I have many times re-gifted cigars someone has given me if I know I will never smoke them(especially good place to gift them is to the troops)
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Pretty straight forward. I am saying I do not believe you should sell a gifted cigar.
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Old 02-24-2011, 02:12 PM   #17
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I would hope the question of selling a gifted smoke was a joke.

As for regifting sticks you've already tried or don't like, I wouldn't find it inappropriate to do so.
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I was pondering this very question recently. I see nothing wrong with re-gifting. If I gave you something with stipulations it wasn't really a gift.

Now what do you all say about selling gifted cigars??
I say no way in hell would that be appropriate.
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I was pondering this very question recently. I see nothing wrong with re-gifting. If I gave you something with stipulations it wasn't really a gift.

Now what do you all say about selling gifted cigars??
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Personally see nothing wrong with re-gifting at all, selling a gifted cigar is another matter.

I have many times re-gifted cigars someone has given me if I know I will never smoke them(especially good place to gift them is to the troops)
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I say no way in hell would that be appropriate.
Re-gifting cigars so that others may enjoy something you are not going to smoke is more than appropriate. I do this -- and not necessarily because I don't like the cigar. It's more a case that there are other cigars that I enjoy more.

As others have said: selling cigars that you have been gifted is totally inapproriate, wrong, and downright slimey!
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