Why so hateful lately?

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Great post Carlos.


Rule #3 here at Cigar Asylum starts off saying:

Have fun here and practice respect and tolerance with others. Respect is the key word.

Often times many of the really offending posts are removed rather quickly by one of the admins before the masses even see them (it helps with 11 of us). We dont get them all, but we try.

We try to treat everyone like the adults they are and many times turn a "blind eye" of sorts to somewhat borderline posts. Of course, "borderline posts" is the way we see them but they may be actually offensive to some while meaning nothing to another. We cant make everyone happy, so we leave it up to the individual to decide if they want to keep reading the post/thread or not.

In a perfect world we would all get along. Unfortunately its not a perfect world, and Cigar Asylum is part of that imperfect world we all live in. Individuals will argue, not like another member for what ever reasons, etc. here, just like in real life.

All I can suggest is to "be the better man". Easier said than done I know, and sometimes being the better man doesn't always mean being right.
I'm sure you'll feel better about yourself in the end though and have a more enjoyable time here in this place we call home.