Should I feel bad? mixed emotions...

CigarNut · 09-29-2010, 09:14 AM

Like others have said you need to keep your wife happy. I suggest you move the humi to a less prominent location (at least for now). Then I would recommend that you have along talk with your wife.

Explain to her why you purchased the humidor, why you smoke cigars, and ask her what you can for her so that she at least tolerate will if not support your hobby - make sure that she understands how important it is to you (even if you have had these conversations before). I would also talk with her about how to have and handle the conversation with your kids.

Be nice, no threats or ultimatums -- you want to work with her on this so you both come out winners.

09-29-2010, 09:14 AM	#12
CigarNut Fck Cancer! Join Date: Jan 2009 First Name: Michael Location: Clermont, Florida Posts: 18,042 Trading: (111*)	Re: Should I feel bad? mixed emotions... Like others have said you need to keep your wife happy. I suggest you move the humi to a less prominent location (at least for now). Then I would recommend that you have along talk with your wife. Explain to her why you purchased the humidor, why you smoke cigars, and ask her what you can for her so that she at least tolerate will if not support your hobby - make sure that she understands how important it is to you (even if you have had these conversations before). I would also talk with her about how to have and handle the conversation with your kids. Be nice, no threats or ultimatums -- you want to work with her on this so you both come out winners. __________________ Need Beads? Need Five Finger Bags? 2 of 3 Requirements for use of the CA Rolodex: 100 posts/ 60 day membership/ participation in trade (trader rating). New members can be added at any time.

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