Did I do wrong? Long read very adult/serious issue

[shilala]

Originally Posted by kzm007

Hang onto my opinion or my "long thought processes" that help me win arguments?

Neither.
I've found that no one cares about my opinion unless they've asked for it, and there is no such thing as winning an argument, especially with a woman.
It's always best to just shut up and go get the milk.
I know that sounds absolutely ridiculous. Give it 20 or 30 years, and you'll remember you heard it someday. I promise.