Sad story, then a Happy story.

shilala · 07-22-2009, 12:17 PM

I recently finished up a break-up of my 2 1/2-3 year relationship with Kerri.
The breakup lasted about a year. We've been living apart for about five months, but still saw each other a lot. My buddy claims it's the world's longest breakup ever.

The last month or so I've been seeing a girl named Annie, and we're fast falling head over heels.
Kerri was 34, Annie's 48. Both gorgeous and brilliant.
Today Kerri and I wrapped up the whole imaginary divorce and once and for all agreed to disagree and took care of the last of the property distribution.

Annie has waited patiently and supportively while I mop things up, and has become a friend like I've not had in years.
She's beautiful, loving, not nuts, doesn't drink or drug, and loves God more than life. She's got a 15 year old daughter that my daughter adores, and she's a brilliant, gifted, loving and well brought up child.

I've been best of friends with her entire family for years, but never really got to know Annie.
The best part is we came together through Christ, both of us praying for the same gift at the same time. We talked last night, and we've decided to just let 'er rip.
We also agreed to screw things up, back up, and love the other more than ourselves.
I haven't seen her yet today, and I'm excited. It's the first day of a brand new start.

If you all would keep us in your hearts and send some prayers for us, it'd be greatly appreciated.

07-22-2009, 12:19 PM

Congrats, Scott!

white_s2k · 07-22-2009, 12:19 PM

Thanks for sharing Scott, congrats!

taltos · 07-22-2009, 12:20 PM

Glad to hear some good news Scott. You deserve some greatness in your life.

hotreds · 07-22-2009, 12:21 PM

May God richly Bless you both in your new relationship!

G G · 07-22-2009, 12:22 PM

Sounds like the start of something great.

Mugen910 · 07-22-2009, 12:24 PM

Brother I hope you stay happy this time...You deserve it.

sikk50 · 07-22-2009, 12:29 PM

Awww makes me feel all worm and fuzzy inside

shilala · 07-22-2009, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Mugen910

Brother I hope you stay happy this time...You deserve it.

I still love the last two women that were in my life for a long time.
I just ain't going where they're going.
I'm happy to follow Annie. Time will tell.

dunng · 07-22-2009, 12:32 PM

Congrats and best wishes!

TripleF · 07-22-2009, 12:37 PM

As long as you're happy bro, I'm happy for YOU!!!

rizzle · 07-22-2009, 12:37 PM

Good for you bro. I don't know you but you seem like the kind of guy that is deserving of such a relationship. Hope it works out for the both of you.

bowhnter · 07-22-2009, 01:36 PM

Good story, hoping for the best. Sounds like your daughter is happy with the situation as well!!

Volt · 07-22-2009, 01:40 PM

Best wishes for the two of you Scott. Sounds like your both on the same page in life. I'll smoke a nice one for ya'll tonight.

massphatness · 07-22-2009, 01:53 PM

I'm happy and sad at the same time. Does that make sense, Scott? I wish you the absolute best on your new journey.

14holestogie · 07-22-2009, 01:54 PM

Here's wishing you all the best, Scott. I love the way you share your life with us. Makes me smile.

Skywalker · 07-22-2009, 02:01 PM

I'm happy for you Bro!!!

Old Sailor · 07-22-2009, 02:02 PM

Congrats and best wishes!

alley00p · 07-22-2009, 02:05 PM

Thanks for the story, Scott.

While sad, sometimes a breakup is just the only way to continue on with life. I can sympathize - I divorced my first wife after 4 years, and a year later met a wonderful girl who I have shared all of my trials and triumphs for the past 32 years.

I only hope that you can find the same happiness with Annie, and enjoy your life fully for many, many years.

In order to help, I will be smoking something great tonight, as a sacrifice to the Gods of Tobacco and Fire to entice them in blessing your new relationship!

Congatulations!

shilala · 07-22-2009, 02:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by massphatness

I'm happy and sad at the same time. Does that make sense, Scott? I wish you the absolute best on your new journey.

It makes perfect sense. Thanks buddy.

07-22-2009, 12:17 PM	#1
shilala Dear Lord, Thank You. Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Scott Posts: 13,721 Trading: (252)	Sad story, then a Happy story. I recently finished up a break-up of my 2 1/2-3 year relationship with Kerri. The breakup lasted about a year. We've been living apart for about five months, but still saw each other a lot. My buddy claims it's the world's longest breakup ever. The last month or so I've been seeing a girl named Annie, and we're fast falling head over heels. Kerri was 34, Annie's 48. Both gorgeous and brilliant. Today Kerri and I wrapped up the whole imaginary divorce and once and for all agreed to disagree and took care of the last of the property distribution. Annie has waited patiently and supportively while I mop things up, and has become a friend like I've not had in years. She's beautiful, loving, not nuts, doesn't drink or drug, and loves God more than life. She's got a 15 year old daughter that my daughter adores, and she's a brilliant, gifted, loving and well brought up child. I've been best of friends with her entire family for years, but never really got to know Annie. The best part is we came together through Christ, both of us praying for the same gift at the same time. We talked last night, and we've decided to just let 'er rip. We also agreed to screw things up, back up, and love the other more than ourselves. I haven't seen her yet today, and I'm excited. It's the first day of a brand new start. If you all would keep us in your hearts and send some prayers for us, it'd be greatly appreciated. __________________

07-22-2009, 12:19 PM	#2
Darrell Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Sad story, then a Happy story. Congrats, Scott!

07-22-2009, 12:19 PM	#3
white_s2k The Dude Abides Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Josh Location: Dallas, TX Posts: 1,052 Trading: (20)	Re: Sad story, then a Happy story. Thanks for sharing Scott, congrats! __________________ "An armed society is a polite society. Manners are good when one may have to back up his acts with his life." – Robert A. Heinlein

07-22-2009, 12:20 PM	#4
taltos Really, really old Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Paul Location: Saugus, MA Posts: 2,486 Trading: (3)	Re: Sad story, then a Happy story. Glad to hear some good news Scott. You deserve some greatness in your life. __________________ Jimmy, some of its magic, some of its tragic, but I had a good life all the way. He Went to Paris, J. Buffett

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hotreds Ephesians 2:8 Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: 5 miles past "Resume Speed" Posts: 11,670 Trading: (63)	Re: Sad story, then a Happy story. May God richly Bless you both in your new relationship! __________________ God loves you so much, that he made you read this, just to let you know.

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G G BR549 Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Greg Location: Taylor, FL. Posts: 12,737 Trading: (10)	Re: Sad story, then a Happy story. Sounds like the start of something great.

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Mugen910 I <3 Huy Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Location Location: First Name Posts: 8,387 Trading: (106)	Re: Sad story, then a Happy story. Brother I hope you stay happy this time...You deserve it. __________________ I'm not antisocial, I just think people are stupid.

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TripleF 11/11/11 EPIC IV Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Scott Location: Clearwater, FL Posts: 5,626 Trading: (176)	Re: Sad story, then a Happy story. As long as you're happy bro, I'm happy for YOU!!! __________________ Cool Cigar Shirts, Stickers & More

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rizzle Order Restored Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: st pete, fl Posts: 2,679 Trading: (23)	Re: Sad story, then a Happy story. Good for you bro. I don't know you but you seem like the kind of guy that is deserving of such a relationship. Hope it works out for the both of you.

07-22-2009, 01:36 PM	#13
bowhnter Backyard BBQer Join Date: Feb 2009 First Name: Mike Location: Frisco, TX Posts: 244 Trading: (4)	Re: Sad story, then a Happy story. Good story, hoping for the best. Sounds like your daughter is happy with the situation as well!! __________________ "And then one day you find ten years have got behind you. No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun"

07-22-2009, 01:40 PM	#14
Volt I'm nuts for the place Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 2,799 Trading: (19)	Re: Sad story, then a Happy story. Best wishes for the two of you Scott. Sounds like your both on the same page in life. I'll smoke a nice one for ya'll tonight. __________________ Curing the infection... One bullet at a time.

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massphatness Where's my buffaloooo ... Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Vin Location: MassHolia Posts: 12,690 Trading: (206)	Re: Sad story, then a Happy story. I'm happy and sad at the same time. Does that make sense, Scott? I wish you the absolute best on your new journey. __________________ *Help Support The Navy SEAL Foundation: HERE*

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14holestogie Serial banter killer Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Tim Location: Clintonville, WI Posts: 4,341 Trading: (52)	Re: Sad story, then a Happy story. Here's wishing you all the best, Scott. I love the way you share your life with us. Makes me smile. __________________ *I loves me a Parti*

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Skywalker BABOTL Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Dice Location: Galaxy Far Far Away Posts: 10,168 Trading: (18)	Re: Sad story, then a Happy story. I'm happy for you Bro!!! __________________ Smoke what you like!!!

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Old Sailor Black Ops - S.O.B. Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Dave Location: Side Porta!! Kingsville, Ont., Canada Posts: 4,213 Trading: (22)	Re: Sad story, then a Happy story. Congrats and best wishes! __________________ Canadian Armed Forces 1976! Canadian Coast Guard, retired in 2012 after 32 years!!

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alley00p Adopted MassHole Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Charlie Location: HOCKEYTOWN! Posts: 1,770 Trading: (41)	Re: Sad story, then a Happy story. Thanks for the story, Scott. While sad, sometimes a breakup is just the only way to continue on with life. I can sympathize - I divorced my first wife after 4 years, and a year later met a wonderful girl who I have shared all of my trials and triumphs for the past 32 years. I only hope that you can find the same happiness with Annie, and enjoy your life fully for many, many years. In order to help, I will be smoking something great tonight, as a sacrifice to the Gods of Tobacco and Fire to entice them in blessing your new relationship! Congatulations! __________________ Alley00p - I may be a FOG, but I'm still trying to dance!! Just don't trip over my cane!