[CoreyD]

Hugh spread some great words, I have this issue with the woman that lives there and her kids and I put up with it for 2 years mine be it was trying to make a family look past everyones character defects and etc. but 2 years later am walking in the resentments road and I lock myself with my son away from everyone or disappear with him for hours only to return to chaos and unhealthiness. Not judging just saying brother. many a time we had talks but issues didn't change so start the talks...you sound like a strong man, keep your wife into how you feel and whats going on and deal with it together.