Ok, ~ $2500 later, here is what I ended up with for my bathroom and kitchen backsplash.
http://www.tileshop.com/product/prod...?familyID=1663
http://www.tileshop.com/product/prod...?familyID=1662
The "rust" color online makes it appear a bit reddish, but the tile actually is more of a darker chocolate. The lighter color will be most of the floor, tub, and shower, but the "rust" color will be cut into diamonds and centered in the tub backsplash and the shower about 2/3 of the way up.
The backsplash will use these 2 colors (4" tile and not .75" as listed):
http://www.tileshop.com/product/prod...x?familyID=480
http://www.tileshop.com/product/prod...x?familyID=490
This border will run along the countertop with the above tile set as diamonds:
http://www.tileshop.com/product/prod...ecordID=397837
The tile guy will do this the last 2 weeks of April, so I'll post pics once it's ready. I can't wait to see how it all looks.