Golf clubs are lie cigars, some people like certain ones and others don't....the absolute best thing to do is get fitted for the clubs...that insures the best clubs for YOU. But if I were going to pick off the shelf clubs, you cannot go wrong with taylormade...the burners are good irons, the R7's are good too, just be careful because everyone has them on sale and your "deal" might not be as good as you think....definately go with a hybird and get regular shafts....a local golf course pro shop will at least let you demo different clubs, even if you don't want to spend the money to get fitted. for your shoes, check out a friend of mines ebay store....great deals.
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