If you are re-lighting that much, try drying the baccy out a bit.
As for English suggestions:
http://www.cigarasylum.com/vb/showth...hlight=english
http://www.cigarasylum.com/vb/showth...hlight=english
I only smoke English as I don't like artificially flavored baccy and I can't taste VA's and VaPer's but I am sure you will get some great suggestions on the other variety's. Good luck!