I have an Corona Old Boy lighter, it is a soft flame lighter and I've had it for at least 25 years. They are a bit pricey, around $100 now, but well worth it.
I do not have one, but Xikar has a cheaper alternative. It looks almost identical to an Old Boy. Here is where I found one.
http://www.lightersdirect.com/Pipeli...0a785a18668973
I might have to get one, just for the sake of having one. But, probably won't.
Peace of the Lord be with you.
Todd