Re: 3 year olds and cigars.....
Although I am in no way one to suggest such things....
I would fess up....Explain it as "something adults do to relax" or "adult candy", make something up that is on her level. I'm sure one way or another she'll get it. Then you don't have to go around feeling bad or guilty. You could even do the old parent trick "one day when you're older we'll talk about that".
May as well establish that mutual level of trust and honesty early on.
Again, this is just my suggestion which holds zero merit or experience.
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