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First I would have to agree if its just over the tobacco there are much greater problems you will face as a couple. If instead it is over the hiding of the cigars, in a woman's eyes/mind that is a treasonous offense.

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That being said always remember the old adage "if you love something, set it free." If you were the perfect couple, let her know you are there and the rest will take care of itself.