leasingthisspace

My last deployment was when my daughter was almost 2 months old. My wife didn't want to stay in VA where my family couldn't help her so she went to Cali where her family could. It made all the difference for her. Is there anyway someone in the family could come and stay for a couple of weeks if you leave right away?
As others have said damned if you do damned if you don't. If you step out of this deployment who is to say you won't get tasked with another for the following month? If that happens then what did you really save by not going on this one.
I can't tell you what to do, but I would say this is a case where I would have to say listen to your wife and what she wants.
I know the hardship in front of you. I will keep you in my prayers for a great outcome. If you need to talk to me somemore about it I am just a PM away.