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ashtonlady · 05-21-2010, 06:16 AM

Congratulations on the new baby.

2nd part- been there done that. I was the wife that my husband went out 2 months after our first was born, then we had a move to another duty station and 2 months after that he was gone again for 7 months after my son was born. To add into that I was in the reserves and got acivated. They keep me state side but still.

My advice is to talk to your wife, see what she wants. And Even though you will be missing a lot of firsts. Your kids wont know the diffrenct right now. Later they will.

My husband got out at the end of his term of duty because he wanted to see his kids grow up.

Thank you for your service.

05-21-2010, 06:16 AM	#12
ashtonlady The Lady is Here Join Date: Jan 2009 First Name: Laura Location: Seattle WA Posts: 1,090 Trading: (8)	Re: Good News....Bad News....Dilemma Congratulations on the new baby. 2nd part- been there done that. I was the wife that my husband went out 2 months after our first was born, then we had a move to another duty station and 2 months after that he was gone again for 7 months after my son was born. To add into that I was in the reserves and got acivated. They keep me state side but still. My advice is to talk to your wife, see what she wants. And Even though you will be missing a lot of firsts. Your kids wont know the diffrenct right now. Later they will. My husband got out at the end of his term of duty because he wanted to see his kids grow up. Thank you for your service.