[RevSmoke]

Ouch, not an easy choice.

Just my personal take? Are they going to remember the first year, or even the first couple years? Not really! Will you, yeah.

With me, my wife fed naturally. I was about as useless as mammoric organs on a male bovine - literally!

As they get older, that they'll remember. 2 or 3 year later to deploy? I don't know.

See what happens, and if you go now, you'll be back in a year for the growing up.

Will keep you in my prayers.

Peace of the Lord be with you.