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Ranger_B · 05-20-2010, 09:26 PM

Gunny
Damned if you do damned if you don't. My the Lord help you and your family as you go through this decision. Have you talked with your wife at all. Might be one of those times where she gets a say. Never a conversation you want to burden Mom with but this might be one of those times where you both get to pick the flavor of your poison. If it was me I think I would lean towards going when I had first said I would and then enjoy the short time you have before you go and then you have something great to look forward to. If you go early your oldest will be older and your youngest will be older come time for your next trip. The other side of the coin is if you stay and wait on the next spin/tasker your wife then has two toddlers running around to keep up with. Either way my friend never a easy choice and my prayers are with you. Hope it helps.

05-20-2010, 09:26 PM	#7
Ranger_B Have My Own Room Join Date: Apr 2009 First Name: Frank Location: North Carolina Posts: 1,321 Trading: (31)	Re: Good News....Bad News....Dilemma Gunny Damned if you do damned if you don't. My the Lord help you and your family as you go through this decision. Have you talked with your wife at all. Might be one of those times where she gets a say. Never a conversation you want to burden Mom with but this might be one of those times where you both get to pick the flavor of your poison. If it was me I think I would lean towards going when I had first said I would and then enjoy the short time you have before you go and then you have something great to look forward to. If you go early your oldest will be older and your youngest will be older come time for your next trip. The other side of the coin is if you stay and wait on the next spin/tasker your wife then has two toddlers running around to keep up with. Either way my friend never a easy choice and my prayers are with you. Hope it helps.