[kenstogie]

Never do things out of anger even though they'll do things that will get to you. Give yourself some time by your self then go back and discuss. Do one thing every day with your child just you and them, (for me it's reading at bedtime) concentrate on listening to them and nothing else. There a reason for the cliche "they grow up sooo fast", There's probably a ton of other stuff that you figure out along the way. They will teach you also.