Ok, here's a dandy of a link, which I found useful after my first divorce, but gone and did it again like the fool I am.
I did follow a few of the tips and married latin. (both times, but for more than the ass the second time)
The Department of Immigration knows me by my first name here.
I have one rule for success; learn to agree, no matter how wrong she is.
www.nomarriage.com