I just realized another way i could have gotten around it too in case anyone else is thinking of making this daring move...
while i was outside sitting by the firepit smoking... the windows where open and i guess the way the wind is blowing now the house smells like fresh burned wood... hmmm maybe i can convince her to go to her mothers next weekend...
there is nothing like smoking a cigar alone without a worry in the world and no one to talk to but yourself