Common Problem and most if not everyone who enjoys cigars has been through it so hang in there and most of all be patient with it.
First thing is go to Walmart and buy an AcuRite Digital Hygro/Thermometer for $8.95 or so, sorry I don't have a picture but they are in the hdw department and are generally very good. about 3" tall and 2" wide or so.
It can take beads/new humidors a week or more to settle down and become somewhat stable so here is where the patience sets in. Also until it has a week or so to stabilize do not be opening it very often. I also would not put my stogies in it till it has a chance to get settled.
I would probably take everything out now and basically start over with seasoning, etc and the digital hygro. I have found that with very dry humis you have to wipe them down good with the distilled water/clean sponge 2 or 3 times about 1 hour apart to get them where they need to be.
Now welcome to the world of cigars as you will get many different ideas than mine and many or all of them may be as or more correct! But you will not find any disagreement on the Patience aspect of the process.
Good Luck!