To answer all.
The do what your wife says is still a good idea.
It was a nice local place, big portions, good prices.
It was my first of this kind, i've almost always done 4-5 diamond type places. Ritz Carlton, Four Seasons, Mandarin Orientals those types of places.
And i've actually been to two of Gordon Ramseys places in London and they're a chefs dream.
Thought about exec chef at a really nice gentlemens club