In the words of the "cigar genius" I first caress the cigar then I taste the cigar, then I spank the cigar... soft at first then really rough it and give it a beating .... Because it likes it ...it likes it a lot. 
 
  
Of course different cigars like to be treated to dinner before the punishment  but you learn about them after a bit of conversation. 
 
  
 
Joking!!! seriously who has the time for foreplay? I just walk up to them tell the one that caught my eye .....(you are coming with me) and with a swift and decisive cut from my palio I take the sucka and light it up to a beautiful cloud of smoke and a powdery lump of ashes...  and once I'm done with it its on to the next ......
Yeah I'm a player, 
don't hate the player hate the game 
