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Remo 05-17-2012 11:14 AM

A question about death....
 
Figured i'd see what kind of answers I get about this. Me and my buddies often kick around this subject and I am sure some of you do also. The question is....

If you could know the date and time of your death and how you die would you want to know? I usually go with yes, might be good to know so you could get things done that you wanted to accomplish, get things in order and maybe be a better person. On the flipside that would be on your mind all the time and maybe crippling to know that you only have so much time left.

Odd question I know but kind of interesting.

floydpink 05-17-2012 11:40 AM

Re: A question about death....
 
If you MUST know, click here.
http://www.deathclock.com/

chaase321 05-17-2012 11:41 AM

Re: A question about death....
 
I love this question. I have considered it many times...

I agree that some people would be "crippled" knowing the date, time, and way they will die. However, I look at it this way...

death happens to everyone, there is no amount of worrying, running, changing, money, or science that will keep you alive forever; therefore, why not know? If i knew when, then I think that would take all the worrying away.

I think about it this way...because no one knows when they will die, they are constantly worrying about it, thinking about it, trying to live their life a certain way (i.e. health, monetarily, etc.). If they knew, then they could ease their worrying and make sure to spend more time with the people and things that really matter in life. I think people would be generally happier. If you knew you were going to be dead tomorrow, you would probably be pleasant today; however, since you don't know...you may in fact be a complete a-hole today.

Also, as no one will ever really know, we already have a jaded outlook on it.

replicant_argent 05-17-2012 11:42 AM

Re: A question about death....
 
Isn't knowing you will die enough?
No one gets out of here alive. Nuff said.

Steve 05-17-2012 11:45 AM

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I already know when I'll die...someday :D

Subvet642 05-17-2012 11:47 AM

Re: A question about death....
 
I've often considered it the curse of humanity to be aware of our mortality, in any respect. As for being a better person, the "skull and crossed bones" of Masonic symbology is a reminder that death is always near and we should conduct ourselves such that we are always prepared for judgement. If one is waiting for their "departure" time and date before becoming a better person, they've already failed.

massphatness 05-17-2012 11:50 AM

Re: A question about death....
 
I really could not care less about when I'm going to die -- it's not something I think about, really at all. The woman I work for is 66 or so and stresses about sniffle, cough and bug bite that comes along. She won't stay in hotels above the 7th floor because she's afraid a ladder truck wouldn't be able to reach her. She doesn't fly because crashing terrifies her. Bird flu & mad cow nearly have her in a hermit-like state. It's crazy -- she's so afraid of EVERYTHING that I don't think she really enjoys anything. Sad. No thank you.

Steve 05-17-2012 11:55 AM

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Seriously, I already had my near death experience back in January of 2009. The way I look at it, each new year is a bonus year for me. I am glad to still be here for my wife and daughter and try to enjoy every minute I can.

Remo 05-17-2012 12:11 PM

Re: A question about death....
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by floydpink (Post 1638992)
If you MUST know, click here.
http://www.deathclock.com/

Yeah, but that is a natural time death.

mosesbotbol 05-17-2012 12:14 PM

Re: A question about death....
 
I don't want to know. How could anyone be sure of when you'll die unless they are planning on killing you?

Blak Smyth 05-17-2012 12:20 PM

Re: A question about death....
 
I would like to know. if it is soon, I don't want to spend anymore time at this god forsaken place of business I find myself at everyday.

Remo 05-17-2012 12:21 PM

Re: A question about death....
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by mosesbotbol (Post 1639005)
I don't want to know. How could anyone be sure of when you'll die unless they are planning on killing you?

Hypothetical question bro :tu

bobarian 05-17-2012 12:40 PM

Re: A question about death....
 
I choose to enjoy life, rather than ponder an inevitable death. :sh

Apoco 05-17-2012 01:25 PM

Re: A question about death....
 
Sure I do! Assuming nothing I do from there on would change that date and time once I know it - I could have a heck of a lot of fun being reckless between now and then :banger
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Pseudosacred 05-17-2012 01:27 PM

Re: A question about death....
 
If I knew when I was going to die, I'd be a dangerous person to be around...

shilala 05-17-2012 01:55 PM

Re: A question about death....
 
Nope. It wouldn't change a thing about how I do anything, it's useless information.
When I wrap it up every night and say my prayers, I don't expect a tomorrow. When I open my eyes and I'm allowed another go at it, it's a gift and I treat it as such.
There's nothing left that I desire, hope for, or want to do that I'd feel like I was losing out if God took me in the middle of dinner tonight.
We're having grilled ribeyes and corn on the cob, otherwise I'd have said "before dinner tonight". ;)

Ogre 05-17-2012 02:06 PM

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I don't care to know. I will play hard until my batteries run out!!!

jjirons69 05-17-2012 02:59 PM

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Don't want to know. Could care less. Charging ahead daily. Life is an adventure not a destination.

replicant_argent 05-17-2012 03:20 PM

Re: A question about death....
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by shilala (Post 1639045)
I'd feel like I was losing out if God took me in the middle of dinner tonight.
We're having grilled ribeyes and corn on the cob, otherwise I'd have said "before dinner tonight". ;)

If God takes me out while I am mid-Ribeye, I will be having a serious Come-to-Jesus chat with her for screwing up my meal, and using it as confirmation that she hates me.


Ribeye, the King of meats, all shall bow before it.

never_enough 05-17-2012 03:37 PM

Re: A question about death....
 
Sure. I like to know things.

Ogre 05-17-2012 03:48 PM

Re: A question about death....
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by replicant_argent (Post 1639082)
If God takes me out while I am mid-Ribeye, I will be having a serious Come-to-Jesus chat with her for screwing up my meal, and using it as confirmation that she hates me.


Ribeye, the King of meats, all shall bow before it.

:r:r:r

pektel 05-17-2012 03:49 PM

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Hell no. Knowing would take all the fun out of it. :tu

Big_Ern 05-17-2012 03:54 PM

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I do not want to know
I try to live everyday without regret.
"treat others as you would like to be treated without the expectations of being treated that way" leads to less disappointment in life.

bonjing 05-17-2012 04:02 PM

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Id' be curious about how I would die versus knowing when.

Mattso3000 05-17-2012 05:14 PM

Re: A question about death....
 
Really don't care to know on this one...but reading this thread I really hope i can finish the ribeye that takes me out.

Bill86 05-17-2012 05:36 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Remo_5_0 (Post 1638985)
I usually go with yes, might be good to know so you could get things done that you wanted to accomplish

This. So I could make sure I enjoyed my life and died with nothing left.

Make sure there isn't any cigars left either :r

shilala 05-17-2012 07:12 PM

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I made it through the Ribeye and it was spectacular. So was the corn.
Apparently God doesn't have the patience to deal with me just yet.

Remo 05-17-2012 07:44 PM

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Lots of good answers :tu

emopunker2004 05-17-2012 07:49 PM

Re: A question about death....
 
Live every day like it's your last Mike, then it won't matter.

Old Sailor 05-17-2012 09:31 PM

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Every day is a good day when you don't wakeup dead!:D

pnoon 05-17-2012 09:53 PM

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Nice review.

n3uka 05-17-2012 11:08 PM

Re: A question about death....
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by floydpink (Post 1638992)
If you MUST know, click here.
http://www.deathclock.com/

According to the clock I will be dead next year. :tf

Going to change my thoughts to didn't want to know. ;)

area51 05-18-2012 05:59 AM

Re: A question about death....
 
Id like to know.

Stephen 05-18-2012 06:22 AM

Re: A question about death....
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by shilala (Post 1639177)
Apparently God doesn't have the patience to deal with me just yet.

Does Heaven have a smoking section, or are those clean-air bastards running rampant up there, too?

BC-Axeman 05-18-2012 07:01 AM

Re: A question about death....
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by steve (Post 1638999)
Seriously, I already had my near death experience back in January of 2009. The way I look at it, each new year is a bonus year for me. I am glad to still be here for my wife and daughter and try to enjoy every minute I can.

Same here. I was hit by a tree falling on me and lived through it. Every day is a gift. I would never have seen my grandchildren. Thank you Lord.

Wanger 05-18-2012 07:03 AM

Re: A question about death....
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by floydpink (Post 1638992)
If you MUST know, click here.
http://www.deathclock.com/

Hmmmm...my one grandpa was 89 when he died, and my other one was 93. My dad is 73, and a fairly heavy smoker. I take better care of myself than they all have. There's no way I'm going at 74, like the clock said, unless someone is taking me out! I plan on dying after having a massive cheeseburger when I'm 95 and have just finished the Ironman Hawaii triathlon. :p

RevSmoke 05-18-2012 08:44 AM

Re: A question about death....
 
I don't ever really think about it. Yes, I know that either I will die, or Christ will return. I expect that either could happen today. So, I like to try and live each day as if it were my last.

How?
Spend time in God's Word and prayer.
Love my family.
Enjoy what you have to do that day.
Love *all* those around you. (By the way, when I say to "love" others, I am not talking about w/feelings, but with how you treat them.)

Peace of the Lord be with you.

Smokin Gator 05-18-2012 10:44 AM

Re: A question about death....
 
I figure I will die when God is done with me being here. Until then I just try to live everyday as he would have me to...

BC-Axeman 05-18-2012 11:13 AM

Re: A question about death....
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by floydpink (Post 1638992)
If you MUST know, click here.
http://www.deathclock.com/

Only 1.233 billion seconds to go. How to plan?

14holestogie 05-18-2012 11:15 AM

Re: A question about death....
 
Expiration dates are for dairy products.

Don't want to know. Don't care to know. When my times up, I'll have stuff left to do.

maninblack 05-18-2012 01:06 PM

Re: A question about death....
 
Live everyday like its your last. I don't need nor want to know. Let the chips fall where they may.


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