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Newbie_nick 09-07-2011 04:11 AM

Seeking counselor
 
Wow... I have issues. If anybody knows of a good addiction counselor, please forward their contact info!!

Ok, I was home with a sick kid yesterday, and there wasn't much to do other than plan on CA and look at cigars. Unfortunately, my wife didn't take my wallet with her because I started bidding and WINNING cigar lots. Seriously, I might be grounded because I just doubled my cigar inventory.

Padilla Achilles Salomon - 10 Cigars
5 Vegas Gold Maduro Toro - 5 Cigars
Gran Habano Blend #3 Gran Robusto - Box of 20

kelmac07 09-07-2011 05:33 AM

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Sounds like the start of a major problem Nick. :D It's a slippery slope...and the fall is even worse. :D

Emjaysmash 09-07-2011 05:37 AM

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:r

The first part to recovery is admitting you have a problem... and some Inmates aren't at that point! lol

Blak Smyth 09-07-2011 06:11 AM

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http://www.thetreatmentcenter.com/al...FcPe4AodcjkQyQ

WittyUserName 09-07-2011 06:12 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Emjaysmash (Post 1400260)
:r

The first part to recovery is admitting you have a problem... and some Inmates aren't at that point! lol

I don't have a problem. Yesterday I got home from work and then the next thing I know I am staring at a NHC order confirmation for three 5ers. I think I blacked out.......

Blak Smyth 09-07-2011 06:22 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by WittyUserName (Post 1400286)
I don't have a problem. Yesterday I got home from work and then the next thing I know I am staring at a NHC order confirmation for three 5ers. I think I blacked out.......

Hahah I stared at NHC's website with those amazing looking surrogates in my shopping cart for like an hour. I was good and didn't pull the trigger...

...yet.


You know what is funny?
I get in trouble with the wife if I spend money on cigars right now becasue things are tight but when I tell her I almost did but maintained a level head I don't get rewarded! It's a lose/lose situation. If I just buy them it is win/lose becasue she becomes mad but I get the cigars. So how am I supposed to function?

jjirons69 09-07-2011 06:28 AM

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Da Klugs is an excellent counselor!

Apoco 09-07-2011 08:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Newbie_nick (Post 1400229)
Padilla Achilles Salomon - 10 Cigars

This reminds me, I'm down to just one of these....

*scurries off laughing with credit card in hand*

I could quit whenever I want to! I just don't want to :) :r
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Ogre 09-07-2011 08:24 AM

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The first step is to admit you have a problem. Now its time for treatment.
The second step is to separate yourself from the issue. So send me all your cigars.
The third step is to prevent yourself from buying more. So send me your Credit Cards.
The fourth step??? Who cares, I got your cigars and credit card.

GOOD LUCK BROTHER!!!!

irratebass 09-07-2011 08:57 AM

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Hell Nick, I'm going to need a 2nd job just so I can have my own $.

TBone 09-07-2011 09:36 AM

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You wouldn't want a counselor from this group...I'm sure someone here has already corrupted them too....hang on tightly as this roller coaster only picks up speed

biggbob 09-07-2011 10:19 AM

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I would like to tell you that I have sympathy for your problem.



....



But I don't.......:P

Newbie_nick 09-07-2011 07:05 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Apoco (Post 1400368)
The first part to recovery is admitting you have a problem... and some Inmates aren't at that point! lol

Oh...I've got a problem alright! I even stopped by my B&M store today just to buy some empty boxes for my coolidor project. I couldn't help myself...I had to pick up a couple of sticks while I was there! HELP ME!


Quote:

Originally Posted by Apoco (Post 1400368)
This reminds me, I'm down to just one of these....

*scurries off laughing with credit card in hand*

I could quit whenever I want to! I just don't want to :) :r
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LOL... Does that mean that I just enabled you further into your addiction?

Drez 09-07-2011 07:10 PM

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No clown in this group is gonna help you out..... They will only make things worse...... Just hold on and enjoy the ride :D hahahaha

DPD6030 09-07-2011 07:16 PM

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All you people say is I have a problem...the real problem is the wife who keeps the cigar budget next to non-existent. I fixed that problem in my life and now I don't spend money on women anymore...just cigars :D




No offense to those who are happily married. :)

bobarian 09-07-2011 07:34 PM

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:r:r:r

You aint seen a problem yet! :sl

http://img200.imageshack.us/img200/7324/coolrt.jpg

MurphysLaw 09-07-2011 07:38 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by bobarian (Post 1401341)
:r:r

You aint seen a problem yet! :sl

http://img200.imageshack.us/img200/7324/coolrt.jpg

nice travel humidor :tu

Newbie_nick 09-07-2011 07:39 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by bobarian (Post 1401341)

You aint seen a problem yet! :sl

http://img200.imageshack.us/img200/7324/coolrt.jpg

Wow... I guess that it's all relative, huh? :r

Skywalker 09-07-2011 08:06 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by bobarian (Post 1401341)

You aint seen a problem yet! :sl

http://img200.imageshack.us/img200/7324/coolrt.jpg

:r:r:r That cooler belongs to one of our Herf buddies, Richard (tzaddi)!

BTW, Bob, was that photo taken at my house or yours?

bobarian 09-07-2011 08:28 PM

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First Chico herf. That's Richard's traveldor! :banger

DaBear 09-07-2011 08:44 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by bobarian (Post 1401341)

I'm half expecting to see someone 1up you there with a cedar lined trunk :r

Newbie_nick 09-08-2011 03:53 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by bobarian (Post 1401468)
First Chico herf. That's Richard's traveldor! :banger

Seriously? That's what you/he brought to a herf? Now I realize how much of an amateur I really am! I'm in waaaaay over my head... :jd

Skywalker 09-08-2011 08:10 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Newbie_nick (Post 1401720)
Seriously? That's what you/he brought to a herf? Now I realize how much of an amateur I really am! I'm in waaaaay over my head... :jd

:r:r:r

Savor the Stick 09-08-2011 09:05 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Newbie_nick (Post 1401720)
Now I realize how much of an amateur I really am! I'm in waaaaay over my head... :jd

It's not the cigars that is the underlaying problem....it's the Devil site (c-bid) it just grabs you. The only thing that works is cold turkey, Shred the Credit Cards, and take all access to money out of your hands.

We have all been there, and done it. My prayers and best wishes on managing your problem








oh I made that reference to the devil site a quick link---mustn't break off too quickly.....Brou...waawugh....ha ha ha ha(evil laugh)

Nice push further down the slope.:sl:noon:gary

bobarian 09-08-2011 09:28 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Newbie_nick (Post 1401720)
Seriously? That's what you/he brought to a herf? Now I realize how much of an amateur I really am! I'm in waaaaay over my head... :jd

No not mine. Our friend Richard(tzaddi) brought the cigars and his pipes, espresso maker with portable stove, rum and I'm sure a few other goodies. I did not mean to imply you were an amateur, only to show that this "hobby" knows no bounds. :tu

WittyUserName 09-08-2011 10:57 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Savor the Stick (Post 1401881)
It's not the cigars that is the underlaying problem....it's the Devil site (c-bid) it just grabs you. The only thing that works is cold turkey, Shred the Credit Cards, and take all access to money out of your hands.

We have all been there, and done it. My prayers and best wishes on managing your problem








oh I made that reference to the devil site a quick link---mustn't break off too quickly.....Brou...waawugh....ha ha ha ha(evil laugh)

Nice push further down the slope.:sl:noon:gary

Gosh Dang It, that imbedded link took me strait to the devil site itself!! Now I am stuck looking at auctions closing today..............must stop myself from logging in and hitting BID

irratebass 09-08-2011 11:33 AM

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I just signed up for the devil site :sl

WittyUserName 09-08-2011 12:25 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by irratebass (Post 1402014)
I just signed up for the devil site :sl

BAHAHAHAHA you are effed

Boz 09-08-2011 12:26 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by irratebass (Post 1402014)
I just signed up for the devil site :sl

:sl And so it begins.

irratebass 09-08-2011 12:30 PM

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Simma down brothers, simma down....for see I have to have $ to start bids...this is just to get me prepared.

Tbagley 09-08-2011 12:31 PM

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Credit card companies are going to love you!

Newbie_nick 09-08-2011 02:57 PM

Re: Seeking counselor
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Savor the Stick (Post 1401881)
It's not the cigars that is the underlaying problem....it's the Devil site (c-bid) it just grabs you. The only thing that works is cold turkey, Shred the Credit Cards, and take all access to money out of your hands.

We have all been there, and done it. My prayers and best wishes on managing your problem



LOL... How did you know that it was Cbid? It seems pretty innocent at first until you start bidding and winning stuff! "Oh...that's a great deal! I think that I'll bid on that!"

I am so screwed... :<

audio1der 09-08-2011 03:37 PM

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I don't have a problem. I order some, smoke them and order more. No problem.

Savor the Stick 09-08-2011 04:22 PM

Re: Seeking counselor
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by WittyUserName (Post 1401987)
Gosh Dang It, that imbedded link took me strait to the devil site itself!! Now I am stuck looking at auctions closing today..............must stop myself from logging in and hitting BID

Quote:

Originally Posted by Newbie_nick (Post 1402172)
LOL... How did you know that it was Cbid? It seems pretty innocent at first until you start bidding and winning stuff! "Oh...that's a great deal! I think that I'll bid on that!"

I am so screwed... :<

Quote:

Originally Posted by irratebass (Post 1402014)
I just signed up for the devil site :sl


:hy:hy

I should get a commission from the devil site for my last post. :lr





Savor the Stick 09-08-2011 04:38 PM

Re: Seeking counselor
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Newbie_nick (Post 1402172)
LOL... How did you know that it was Cbid? It seems pretty innocent at first until you start bidding and winning stuff! "Oh...that's a great deal! I think that I'll bid on that!"

I am so screwed...

Nick,
Been there and done that brother...when I first got back into cigars in '07 someone on the old site "Club Stogie" introduced me to the devil site. I had 2 Vino temps, a 300 ct humi, a 150 ct humi, a 75 ct, a 40 qt cool-idor, and a 120 qt cool-idor.......ALL full......The only thing that saved me was........well I guess nothing saved me.
:banger:noon:<:bhd:bhd

I miss the dancing chicken.

alfredo_buscatti 09-09-2011 12:54 AM

Re: Seeking counselor
 
If I have available funds, nine times out of ten they get spent on cigars. If I don't I have a firm rule that I can only charge one box at a time; I can't charge another until I've payed off the first box. Given the price of cigars and the eternal urge to buy, amassing unwieldy credit card debt is all too possible for lovers of the leaf.

irratebass 09-09-2011 03:38 AM

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That's the way to do it mike, + keep that credit score up as well :tu

Newbie_nick 09-15-2011 06:57 PM

Re: Seeking counselor
 
Just posting pics of the purchase that started this thread!

http://i153.photobucket.com/albums/s...IMAG0013-1.jpg

Ogre 09-15-2011 07:18 PM

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Yea Nick, I see years of expensive therapy in your future. So take a stick and a drink and start your "THERAPY"!!!!

Newbie_nick 09-16-2011 06:14 AM

Re: Seeking counselor
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Ogre (Post 1409925)
Yea Nick, I see years of expensive therapy in your future. So take a stick and a drink and start your "THERAPY"!!!!

I see "enablers" here, not counselors! :lr


Will do!

Savor the Stick 09-16-2011 11:30 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Newbie_nick (Post 1410377)
I see "enablers" here, not counselors! :lr


Well Nick you were an inadvertent "enabler" by coming on and asking for "counseling"---HA ! ! !---Like you're really gonna get that here.

This is my damage since you started your little story.

La Aurora 2nds Bristol Especiale (15) -- 2
5 Vegas Relic Perfecto - 10 Cigars -- 1
Rubberized Punch Cutter - 2-Pak -- 1
Havana Classico Pequeno(5) -- 2 Actually these are not a bad smoke-long filler and ugly as sin, but good flavor.
Oliva Serie 'G' Special G (48) -- Box



Thanks for the help! :bhd
:lr

Newbie_nick 09-16-2011 06:53 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Savor the Stick (Post 1410626)
Well Nick you were an inadvertent "enabler" by coming on and asking for "counseling"---HA ! ! !---Like you're really gonna get that here.

This is my damage since you started your little story.

La Aurora 2nds Bristol Especiale (15) -- 2
5 Vegas Relic Perfecto - 10 Cigars -- 1
Rubberized Punch Cutter - 2-Pak -- 1
Havana Classico Pequeno(5) -- 2 Actually these are not a bad smoke-long filler and ugly as sin, but good flavor.
Oliva Serie 'G' Special G (48) -- Box



Thanks for the help! :bhd
:lr

:tu


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