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RGD. 12-24-2010 03:37 PM

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. . . when it comes to my dogs. Losing TJ last year so suddenly and now, after taking Rusty (16 year old beagle) to the vets - we know this will be his last Christmas with us.

His kidneys are failing. He has a tumor around the artery that leads to the brain and another tumor that is dislocating his front leg. The vet has put him on pain pills and also treated an ear infection so he won't be in any pain now. The time has been scheduled for after the holidays but I haven't told my daughters the date yet - they just know after New Years.

Rusty was never the brightest apple in the bin - but he has always been loyal and loved.

Ron

hotreds 12-24-2010 03:39 PM

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Sorry to hear. I pray for comfort for you and your family.

G G 12-24-2010 03:40 PM

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Sure am sorry to hear that Ron.

zappaFREAK 12-24-2010 03:54 PM

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The loss of a treasured family pet is never easy. Take solace in the years you enjoyed together. I wish you comfort for you and your family.

replicant_argent 12-24-2010 04:07 PM

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I will send some strength and thoughts your families way, Ron.
I am sure you gave him a very full and happy life, and you care enough to help him in his time of need now, he needs you to do what you need so he can have peace.
Prayers sent, brother.

Ogre 12-24-2010 04:38 PM

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I am sorry about your loss and the illness of Rusty. Will say prayers for you and your family.

icehog3 12-24-2010 04:53 PM

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So sorry to hear Ron, I know how hard it is to lose a family member. It's good that you are doing the right thing for Rusty, and I hope your memories of him help you through the sad time.

LostAbbott 12-24-2010 05:00 PM

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That is the thing about dogs, there are hear for a short while but are good right from the start. They help us learn love, loyalty, and trust. When they leave we learn how to deal with loss and it helps us with what we experience in the future. Good luck with your dog and I hope he can remain happy and comfortable as long as possible.

I just wish we could take that lesson and apply it to our own elder human family members.

Take care brother and have a good Christmas tomorrow.

ahc4353 12-24-2010 05:53 PM

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Hugs from the Clarks.

Knip23 12-24-2010 07:00 PM

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Sorry to hear about your dog brother. Thought and prayers go out. Hope you have a Merry Christmas tommarow.

The Knueppel family.

CigarNut 12-24-2010 07:03 PM

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I am so sorry to hear about your dog; my thoughts and prayers are with you!

kelmac07 12-24-2010 07:48 PM

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Sorry to hear Ron. Our dogs are part of our family as well. Enjoy the holiday season and "spoil" Rusty a little more than normal. Thoughts and prayers your way brother.

mosesbotbol 12-24-2010 08:15 PM

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That a tough one. He sounds like a great part of the family.

68TriShield 12-24-2010 08:28 PM

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I don't know if there is anything more difficult we will do in our lives Ron.

Coach Deg 12-24-2010 08:38 PM

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We a tear in my eye, thoughts and prayers sent your way! Enjoy him the last few weeks, spoil him and think of the 16 great years!

14holestogie 12-24-2010 08:59 PM

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Never an easy thing to have to do, but the right thing. Prayers for healing the hurt.

RGD. 01-08-2011 07:59 AM

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"If it should be that I grow frail and weak,
And pain should keep me from my sleep,
Then will you do what must be done,
For this, the last battle, can't be won."


Rusty - Feb 5, 1995 - Jan 8, 2011


Ron

G G 01-08-2011 08:01 AM

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Sorry Ron, but I know that he had a loving home.

pnoon 01-08-2011 08:02 AM

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I'm saddened by your loss, Ron.

AD720 01-08-2011 08:05 AM

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So sorry Ron. It's always tough but take comfort in the fact that you did the right thing your friend. That is the best way we can thank them for all they do for us.

replicant_argent 01-08-2011 08:19 AM

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Rusty will live on in fond memories, Ron. You did the right thing, and were a good steward and friend. Condolences, sir.

Bunker 01-08-2011 08:20 AM

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RIP Rusty.

The hardest part of being owned by a dog. :(

Blueface 01-08-2011 08:51 AM

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Sorry to hear Ron.
I have been there too and don't think anyone who loves a divas a child can be strong when the time comes to say goodbye.

massphatness 01-08-2011 09:09 AM

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All dogs go to heaven.

RIP Rusty.

Hugged my pooch this morning a little more than I normally do.

jesseboston81 01-08-2011 09:15 AM

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So sorry for your loss, Ron; I'm sure you gave Rusty a very happy life. My thoughts are with you.

Eleven 01-08-2011 09:19 AM

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Very sorry to hear this.

Ogre 01-08-2011 09:47 AM

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Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Author unknown...

CasaDooley 01-08-2011 09:50 AM

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My condolences Ron.

icehog3 01-08-2011 10:34 AM

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I am so sorry for your loss, Ron....I hope the 16 years worth of memories Rusty gave to you help see you through this sad time.

Gophernut 01-08-2011 10:53 AM

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I'm very sorry for your loss. As a fellow dog lover, I know the pain that this causes. My prayers for you and your family. God bless.

justonemorestick 01-08-2011 11:20 AM

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As one dog owner to another I am sorry to hear that you had to do that but Thank you for being strong.

Blindjimme 01-08-2011 11:59 AM

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My family shares your families loss. We send thoughts and prayers for a little extra strength till time replaces the pain with the great memories.

mscales 01-08-2011 01:50 PM

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Sorry to hear about your loss of Rusty. May he RIP.

68TriShield 01-08-2011 02:11 PM

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I'm glad to have known Rusty in a small way Ron.
He had a good long life but as always,our beloved pets are always missed.

BSB 01-08-2011 02:19 PM

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I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a pet, is harder than losing most people, I think. Look for Rusty at Rainbow Bridge.

ahc4353 01-08-2011 03:08 PM

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I'm so sorry Ron.

You did the right thing.

14holestogie 01-08-2011 03:21 PM

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Very sorry for your loss, Ron. Remember the many good times with Rusty.

maninblack 01-08-2011 04:06 PM

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Sorry to hear about this brother but you did the right thing and he isn't in pain anymore. I'm not looking forward to the day I have to do the same to my bully, Jax.He's my right hand man.

Ogre 01-08-2011 04:35 PM

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He is waiting for you brother at the "Rainbow Bridge". I have 2 there waiting on me. It will be a glorious reunion.

joeobx 01-08-2011 04:50 PM

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Ron, my heart goes out to you. I've been there and I know your pain

SmokeyJoe 01-08-2011 06:06 PM

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So sorry, Ron... I understand your pain.

I also know you provided a good and loving home for a faithful companion who enjoyed a long life. You gave Rusty everything he could ever want. He was happy to be there with you. You did what was best for your furry friend.

Praying for peace and comfort for your home. It hurts so much, because you loved so much. That is always a good trade.

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Originally Posted by RGD. (Post 1124226)
"If it should be that I grow frail and weak,
And pain should keep me from my sleep,
Then will you do what must be done,
For this, the last battle, can't be won."


Rusty - Feb 5, 1995 - Jan 8, 2011


Ron


RevSmoke 01-08-2011 06:47 PM

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Ouch!

God's blessings upon you and the family as you deal with the pain of losing such a dear friend.

Peace of the Lord be with you.


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