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shilala 02-17-2009 08:43 AM

How do you moderate?
 
I was wondering how some of you guys moderate.
For instance, I have way too many cigars. That helps me not purchase any more cigars. Well, that's not entirely true. There's nothing else I want right this moment because I have everything I like, so until I see something else I might like or begin obsessing because I only have 10 of something left, I'm less likely to buy stuff.
I even thought to go so far as to set a limit of maybe five smokes for stuff I never get around to smoking and get rid of the rest. I know, crazy. It crossed my mind though. :)

Being as lots of us don't moderate in any fashion, I don't expect a lot of posts, but I'd love to hear your methods. Consider it group therapy so I don't end up living in your basement. :tu

hotreds 02-17-2009 08:46 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
What's "moderate?"














:D

GTsetGO 02-17-2009 08:49 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
the fact that my humidors are full keeps me from buying.

and before someone says it, no i am not buying another humidor. :D

hotreds 02-17-2009 08:50 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by GTsetGO (Post 239950)
the fact that my humidors are full keeps me from buying.

and before someone says it, no i am not buying another humidor. :D

But a coolerdor is a different matter........

GTsetGO 02-17-2009 08:51 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
okay okay. I am not buying anything else to store my cigars in. :D

that is until i build my bar and it has a humidor in it as well.

poker 02-17-2009 08:52 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
easy...


ban, dont ban, infract, etc.
:r

pnoon 02-17-2009 08:53 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by poker (Post 239956)
easy...


ban, dont ban, infract, etc.
:r

:tpd:

+ We don't like SPAM !

GTsetGO 02-17-2009 08:53 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by poker (Post 239956)
easy...


ban, dont ban, infract, etc.
:r

smartass. :rolleyes:

i thought this was a staff question as well until i read it. :ss

Cyanide 02-17-2009 09:09 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Well, being still at the beginning of the slope I guess I have it easier in that "this train isn't a run-away yet, so its easy to apply the brakes". My current method is: acquire singles from either samplers, B&Ms or trades/gifts. Try the singles. If I like one, it gets put into the list of cigars I would like to have a couple more of. Then, I acquire them either through focused trades, complex boxsplits (multi-boxes, multi-people) or purchasing online 5'ers. The goal is to get 5-8 cigars of each type I like. Any cigars I have of a particular type over and beyond 5-8 cigars are up for trade-out/gifting. Any singles I have are for trade-out on a discretional basis.

I guess this is the method I use to ensure that I don't get out of control. I placed these measures in action early as I did see the great potential to lose perspective early.

That being said, I am already at 2 humis full, a 30ct pelican case like-case full, and am in the midst of accessorizing/altering an actual pelican case to act as a humidor. I guess my "brakes" are only slowing my descent down the slope.

Cheers

Cyanide

Kreth 02-17-2009 09:21 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
I married a moderator. :r

Seanohue 02-17-2009 09:22 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
By not having money :)

DrDubzz 02-17-2009 09:26 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Seanohue (Post 239996)
By not having money :)

this is the most common method for myself

Tikihut27 02-17-2009 09:30 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Kreth (Post 239994)
I married a moderator. :r

:tpd:

I buy infrequently enough so my wife won't get the idea in her head to add up my annual cigar expenses.

N2Advnture 02-17-2009 09:37 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
It's tough...

...with that said, recently I calculate how many years I could smoke if I stopped buying today (which we know won't happen). It was a bit of an eye opener to say the least.

gnukfu 02-17-2009 09:47 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Once all my containers are full of cigars I stop buying them. :tu

N2Advnture 02-17-2009 09:48 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by gnukfu (Post 240041)
Once all my containers are full of cigars I stop buying them. :tu

Stop buying cigars or containers :)

The Professor 02-17-2009 09:50 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by N2Advnture (Post 240025)
It's tough...

...with that said, recently I calculate how many years I could smoke if I stopped buying today (which we know won't happen). It was a bit of an eye opener to say the least.

Come on ... how many years (rounded up)? :dance:




No money and being married are my #1 and #2 ways (tied, probably).


And in the spirit of full disclosure, I could probably go 2-3 years at my current rate. :pu

galaga 02-17-2009 09:50 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by poker (Post 239956)
easy...


ban, dont ban, infart, outfart etc.
:r

Quote:

Originally Posted by pnoon (Post 239958)
:tpd:

+ We don't like SPAM or beans!


:ss



or Lobster Thermidor a' Crevette with a mornay sauce served in a Provencale manner with shallots and aubergines garnished with truffle pate, brandy and with a fried egg on top and spam.

VirtualSmitty 02-17-2009 09:51 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Seanohue (Post 239996)
By not having money :)

Exactly!

leasingthisspace 02-17-2009 09:54 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Kreth (Post 239994)
I married a moderator. :r


I think this is the method I will have to go with for now.

TripleF 02-17-2009 09:57 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
money.






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PeteSB75 02-17-2009 09:57 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
I just buy what I like. For NCs, I have a half-dozen or so smokes that always seem to go first, regardless of what is in my humi. So I smoke those until I finish the box. Then I buy more. For CCs, it's a different story, gotta buy to age, and I've not really gotten into that so much. I seem to buy, smoke NCs until the CCs are ready, smoke the CCs, then buy more, only to find I need to age again... I need a better system and more storage.

Ashcan Bill 02-17-2009 10:07 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
It took a couple of years but my cabinet is full now. From here on out, my rule is if I can't get a new box into the cabinet, I won't buy it. Basically one out, one in.

It's a rule I'll keep for a number of reasons.
  • I have enough in there to keep on smoking a long time even if I never bought another box. The need is diminished.
  • I have enough duplicates of favorites that I can let some of them mature for years. An initial goal met.
  • What I have stashed I like - no mistakes or buyer regrets. I'll actually smoke and enjoy what I have.
  • And as I slowly replace what I smoke, I can upgrade fairly inexpensively if I choose since I'll be buying one box at a time instead of multiple boxes.

Through the end of last year I had multiple orders coming in monthly. In December I hit critical mass and ran out of room. I just placed my first order for '09 - a single box to replace a single box. So far, so good. ;)

silentjon 02-17-2009 10:09 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
I have way too many cigars, yet I can't stop buying more.

SilverFox 02-17-2009 10:10 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by gnukfu (Post 240041)
Once all my containers are full of cigars I stop buying them. :tu

Problem is I consider my house a container

karmaz00 02-17-2009 10:20 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
im just buying...buying....cause i heard cigars are on the endangered species list :)

ucla695 02-17-2009 10:39 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
My buying is moderated by the amount of room I have in my humis. Now that I’m at capacity and the moderator (my wife) doesn’t want to see another humi in the house, I’m holding steady.

bobarian 02-17-2009 10:42 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Not a big fan of moderation. I try to limit things to max capacity, but if I find something I want at a good price it just gives me an excuse to give some smokes away.

Starscream 02-17-2009 10:43 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Seanohue (Post 239996)
By not having money :)

:tpd:

Kreth 02-17-2009 10:44 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by karmaz00 (Post 240096)
im just buying...buying....cause i heard cigars are on the endangered species list :)

The whole "But honey, I need to buy them now before mean ol' President Obama taxes the cigar companies out of business" argument didn't work for me... :r

MithShrike 02-17-2009 10:47 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
I have other interests that are more costly and more satisfying to me. I'd rather have only a few cigars that I really enjoy than a vast collection and use the money toward other things. Mainly right now though I don't have much to devote to this sort of thing anyway so my hobbies are on hold. :(

shilala 02-17-2009 10:47 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by SilverFox (Post 240078)
Problem is I consider my house a container

:r :r :r
That's my problem, too. I don't have to fly acquisitions past anyone, and that's a killer. Not too many women would allow a gigantic display humi in the dining room. :D
They probably wouldn't be cool with a stack of winadors in the living room, either.

14holestogie 02-17-2009 10:48 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
I'm married to a failing moderator. :r

Cyanide 02-17-2009 11:21 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
So what you are saying, then, is that if your collection grows without any signs of moderation or control, its is really your wife's fault. I like that angle. It maintains your ability to buy the cigars, while divorcing you of any responsibility or accountability. It seems you have turned your cigar purchasing process into a government program. Clever!

Darrell 02-17-2009 11:23 AM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Not very well.

Ace$nyper 02-17-2009 12:19 PM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
I buy car parts... cuts down on cigars.

Da Klugs 02-17-2009 12:35 PM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by N2Advnture (Post 240042)
Stop buying cigars or containers :)


Moderation comes in only 2 forms:

1. Financial necessity or
2. Space constraints.

Since coolers are relatively cheap... see point # 1.

:D

drjammer 02-17-2009 12:37 PM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Seanohue (Post 239996)
By not having money :)

+1

Skywalker 02-17-2009 01:42 PM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
There is plenty of room left in my sock drawer!!!:D

Seriously, money is the biggest reason for cutting back on purchases, for me!!!:bh

nozero 02-17-2009 01:50 PM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Da Klugs (Post 240377)
Moderation comes in only 2 forms:

1. Financial necessity or
2. Space constraints.

Since coolers are relatively cheap... see point # 1.

:D

I'll go with this response as well.

gnukfu 02-17-2009 01:51 PM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Da Klugs (Post 240377)
Moderation comes in only 2 forms:

1. Financial necessity or
2. Space constraints.

Since coolers are relatively cheap... see point # 1.

:D

Dave

Don't remind me of the empty 120 quart cooler sitting in my garage! I forgot all about that! :eek:

shilala 02-17-2009 02:05 PM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Da Klugs (Post 240377)
Moderation comes in only 2 forms:

1. Financial necessity or
2. Space constraints.

Since coolers are relatively cheap... see point # 1.

:D

That's pretty much the epitomy of the Anti-Moderator.
I just made a note to myself to not ask you for any purchase avoidance advice.

tzaddi 02-17-2009 02:05 PM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Scott, my need to consume, touch and play with tobacco is somewhat placated by the demands that growing, drying, curing, aging and storing tobacco provides.

With a crop underway for this year your personal experiment utilizing this theory is underway, see if it doesn't work for you. :)

Edit: You would be amazed at the amount of tobaccos seductive essence is absorbed through the skin when tending, sorting, rolling and what-not.

shilala 02-17-2009 04:21 PM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by tzaddi (Post 240573)
Scott, my need to consume, touch and play with tobacco is somewhat placated by the demands that growing, drying, curing, aging and storing tobacco provides.

With a crop underway for this year your personal experiment utilizing this theory is underway, see if it doesn't work for you. :)

Edit: You would be amazed at the amount of tobaccos seductive essence is absorbed through the skin when tending, sorting, rolling and what-not.

I can't wait to smoke those home rolls you sent. They smell amazing and they're ready to go.
I imagine this will do just the opposite of what I'd hope would happen with this obsession, but I'm gonna dive in anyways. :D

ca21455 02-17-2009 05:11 PM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
My 20 count humi kept me from buying more then 20 so,

purchased a 100 count humi which kept me from buying more then 120 so,

put together a Plexiglas 300 count humi which kept me from buying more then 420 so,

purchased a cabinet and put all my cigars in it which keeps me from buying more then 1500 cigars so,

I am building a walk-in and will have to assume budget will keep me from filling it, at least for some time. :)

Wolfgang 02-17-2009 05:14 PM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Easy!

No job = no money = less cigars :-D

DBall 02-17-2009 05:41 PM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Moderate? I leave that to the team of 11.

Seriously, these are great points:

Quote:

Originally Posted by Seanohue (Post 239996)
By not having money :)

&
Quote:

Originally Posted by gnukfu (Post 240041)
Once all my containers are full of cigars I stop buying them. :tu

However, in truth, it boils down to this:

Quote:

Originally Posted by Darrell (Post 240248)
Not very well.


MikeyC 02-17-2009 06:21 PM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Da Klugs (Post 240377)
Moderation comes in only 2 forms:

1. Financial necessity or
2. Space constraints.

Since coolers are relatively cheap... see point # 1.

:D

If you're not married then I think Dave's post about sums it up. :ss

On a serious note, I do pretty regularly go through my collection and "cull the herd" so to speak. Anything that I don't think is going to be smoked in the near future gets the axe. Near future at this point I think means in the next 4-5 years. :ss

CBI_2 02-17-2009 06:39 PM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Seanohue (Post 239996)
By not having money :)

Ditto. Also why my humidor has never been full. LOL But I have something to smoke foe the weekends and occasionally through the week.

groogs 02-17-2009 07:21 PM

Re: How do you moderate?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Kreth (Post 239994)
I married a moderator. :r

:tpd: But I still seem to buy a LOT of cigars withought taking to much grief. I just bought a house, so I think that will suck up my excess budget, and end my crazy purchases...For a little while anyways.:D


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