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RevSmoke
11-08-2011, 06:00 PM
Personally, I enjoy a cigar best in the company of others who are enjoying a cigar with me. Next, I really enjoy a cigar in the company of friends who may not be cigar smokers at all, but who do not mind me indulging myself.

Lastly, I will enjoy a cigar alone - although that is not preferred at all. Alone, I will more often gravitate to filling my pipe and sitting with a good book or movie. Although, with the right movie a cigar is OK - but better if the movie is shared with another smoker.

How many of you find yourselves in that same boat?

How do you prefer to have your cigars - alone? Or with a friend?

Peace of the Lord be with you.

Cornrow_Wallis
11-08-2011, 06:03 PM
90% of the time I'm flying solo.

E.J.
11-08-2011, 06:11 PM
I prefer to smoke with friends, which is how I do 90% of my smoking.

kelmac07
11-08-2011, 06:12 PM
With a friend(s) for certain!! :D

Ogre
11-08-2011, 06:14 PM
With friends, everything is better!!!!

Dunkel
11-08-2011, 06:15 PM
I prefer to smoke with a friend(s), but I often smoke alone.

w squared
11-08-2011, 06:16 PM
I tend to smoke with friends - mostly opther cigar or pipe guys. I don't object to smoking alone with a book...but I do prefer to have it as a social occasion.

Stephen
11-08-2011, 06:17 PM
I smoke almost exclusively alone. More often than not it's time that I use to relax, unwind and savor the moment.

Bill86
11-08-2011, 06:19 PM
I smoke alone, all by myself.

Most of the time at least.

Mattso3000
11-08-2011, 06:22 PM
Most of the time I smoke alone, In the winter tho I tend to gravitate towards the local B&M. Gets a little cold outside.

688sonarmen
11-08-2011, 06:43 PM
I smoke alone mostly to unwind after a day or get up early to start the day. I enjoy cigars the most with no distractions and will smoke new cigars or ones I have been saving when I can pay the most attention to it. Smoking in the company of others has it's benefits but it's not about the cigars so I'll smoke my go to.

acarr
11-08-2011, 06:55 PM
When I smoke alone, I prefer to be by myself.

Zeuceone
11-08-2011, 07:00 PM
Mainly smoke at the local B&M and always smoke bymyself. I smoke at home but I'm always doing something as to not waste time just smoking.

big a
11-08-2011, 07:27 PM
I smoke alone %50 of the time, %25 with my wife and %25 with friends. When I smoke alone i am often on my laptop on CA so i am with my friends in an around about way. :ss

darkleeroy
11-08-2011, 07:29 PM
Most of the time I'm smoking at my B&M. It's always nice to know the random thoughts of a fellow BOTL.

I also fly solo, but not really. My trusty Basset Hound is almost always by my side laying on the porch with me.

Emjaysmash
11-08-2011, 07:38 PM
I haven't smoked alone in close to 3 months. The few times I have smoked have all been with friends.

Bageland2000
11-08-2011, 08:06 PM
I smoke alone sometimes to be by myself and relax, but most of the time I despise it. In fact, if I had a buddy who smoked as much as I would like to, I'd probably go through sticks about 10 times as fast as I do right now. Usually I smoke with people during that rare, "hey Nagel, I think it's finally time to have a stogie" special event type thing. Rare, but maybe that's a good thing :)

w squared
11-08-2011, 08:08 PM
I've returned to smoking as a social activity, and it's reminded me that I enjoy it enough to do it solo....if that makes sense.

gator_79
11-08-2011, 08:55 PM
I prefer to smoke socially. Weather it's with friends, hanging out at the local B&M, or going to a cigar lounge. Theres just something about a good cigar tht brings people togeather.

CigarSquid
11-08-2011, 09:09 PM
I would love to enjoy it with others. I, right now, 99% am alone when I smoke.

emopunker2004
11-08-2011, 09:18 PM
I prefer to smoke with friends, which is how I do 90% of my smoking.

:tu +1

Brutus2600
11-08-2011, 09:52 PM
I would choose to smoke with the local crew (or any of you guys) any day of the week, but 4 out of my average 7 smokes a week are by myself.

There is something to be said about the solitude I enjoy on my back porch enjoying the view, but I really do enjoy the company at a good herf :tu

rebelknight
11-08-2011, 10:00 PM
When I'm at school I have an awesome crew to smoke with. It's usually my roommate and a good friend, Krishthefish. We also hit some of the B&M's every week and enjoy the company of the guys there. When I'm back home I don't have as many friends who enjoy smoking but I try to turn people on to it and always have a good time no matter what. Either way I prefer smoking with a friend. It's always better than smoking alone.

pektel
11-08-2011, 10:06 PM
I wish there were friends/botl's close to me. Almost 100% of the time I smoke alone.
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deadrise
11-08-2011, 10:09 PM
well most of my smokes are here with you fine gentlemen during the week.
but I been a bit stir crazy and going to the weekly VCM herf and has been a blast
but is a 2 hour drive one way but gets me out of the house.
now on the weekend I got a nice spot about a mile away with a full bar pool table and good friends to smoke with and with a few drinks in me I go thru cigars like crazy like 10 a weekend.
so yea I would defiantly say social is better

Sonic04GT
11-09-2011, 12:08 AM
Alone almost all the time, with my iPad.

CasaDooley
11-09-2011, 12:14 AM
I enjoy my smoking time infinitely more when shared with friends then when I am alone. :ss

taltos
11-09-2011, 06:04 AM
Since I was ill last year, I have become much more private and enjoy most things including cigars alone on my deck with good reading material and talk radio for listening material.

SteelCityBoy
11-09-2011, 07:43 AM
I enjoy smoking with friends but there are certainly times that I find smoking alone very peaceful and relaxing. I don't know what it is but when I am alone with just my smoke I am able to clear my mind and just simply relax. Weekends are usually spent with great friends so I certainly enjoy burning with them, but weekdays after a long day....sometimes a good smoke and time to reflect does me good.

Blak Smyth
11-09-2011, 08:09 AM
I smoke mostly with friends on The Wood.
I do enjoy smoking alone sometimes, like Ken said it can be more peacefull and relaxing.

Of course smoking with friends at a herf is the best!

Skywalker
11-09-2011, 08:18 AM
Enjoying a cigar with friends is always preferred, however I smoke alone on most days (many times, I do have friends to text with).

Jefft72
11-09-2011, 08:54 AM
Alone, typically from 10-midnight in a comfy chair in the driveway. The neighborhood is dark and peaceful so it is definitely relaxing, but I will usually be surfing on my phone as well. I do enjoy going to the local B&M from time to time.

neoflex
11-09-2011, 09:45 AM
I prefer to smoke with friends but unfortunately due to time and the small number of friends who enjoy the hobby I often find myself smoking alone. It's amazing how a mediocre stick can become amazing when enjoyed with great company.

Blak Smyth
11-09-2011, 09:50 AM
I prefer to smoke with friends but unfortunately due to time and the small number of friends who enjoy the hobby I often find myself smoking alone. It's amazing how a mediocre stick can become amazing when enjoyed with great company.

True, I also find a great stick can become mediocre with great company.
Sometimes I am too busy having a good time to pay enough attention to my smoke.

bdgile
11-09-2011, 10:18 AM
I am about 50%/ 50%. I enjoy having a cigar alone if I just want to get away and relax or if I need to get some work done and make it more bearable. If I had the choice I would probably be with friends. There's nothing like a deep conversation among friends over a stogie!

N2 GOLD
11-09-2011, 11:05 AM
I like doing the group thing but alone time is always good... -(P

qsalinas
11-09-2011, 11:20 AM
I guess I'm one of the lucky ones that has lots of friends that smoke more than I do and a wonderful woman that loves to smoke with as well. :D
So is very rare that I have to smoke alone. :ss

357
11-09-2011, 11:26 AM
I rarely smoke alone. I don't enjoy it nearly as much. I kind of have to be in a certain mood to take the time to smoke alone. I really love smoking with other BOTLs when ever I can. Although, I have a nice heated & ventilated sunroom that I'm pricing out a TV for. Once that is installed, I may end up smoking alone a little more often while watching a game or whatnot.

mariogolbee
11-09-2011, 11:32 AM
I prefer to smoke with friends, but I like to smoke regardless. I don't usually do homework or study with friends, but I find a cigar makes both of these activities more interesting. If I can combine a cigar with any activity I find that activity enhanced whether I an in company or not.

Benwoo
11-09-2011, 11:50 AM
I smoke cigars solo while working but prefer to be around friends if possible. I'll usually bring a few sticks to the bar to share with friends while shooting pool. I tend to enjoy my pipes solo, just seems right that way.

Chris

Steve
11-09-2011, 01:32 PM
I'm with you Todd!

irratebass
11-09-2011, 01:35 PM
I prefer to smoke with friends, but sadly my friends are too far away from me, same with B&M's so I usually just sit in the garage and think of all of you on CA and think about what you would think about the cigar I am smoking.

cigardan
11-09-2011, 02:25 PM
I prefer to smoke with friends (or relatives), but I rarely have the opportunity, so probably about 80% - 90% of the time I am smoking alone.

craiggory
11-09-2011, 03:26 PM
99% of the time I am going it alone. I prefer to smoke with friends, but I don't have any cigar smoker friends at the moment.

Smokin Gator
11-09-2011, 03:40 PM
I have my after dinner stick in the man cave alone... occasionally with me wife, but as far as enjoyment... a stick or ten with friends is hard to beat!!!

LigaPrivadaT84
11-09-2011, 03:52 PM
Prefer to smoke with friends, but more often than not, am forced to smoke alone.

manny
11-09-2011, 04:19 PM
I smoke alone and in the dark. Often times with my B.I.L. That is the best time of my day.

Steve
11-09-2011, 06:35 PM
I have my after dinner stick in the man cave alone... occasionally with me wife, but as far as enjoyment... a stick or ten with friends is hard to beat!!!

I'll see what I can do about that this weekend!

Crownedone
11-09-2011, 07:16 PM
I love to smoke alone, out in the woods behind my house in an old broken down recliner where the smoke can take me away to exotic and foreign lands.

I love to smoke with friends, hanging out laughing joking, and drinking.

I love to smoke with the wife. Her in her chair me in mine while watching tv or a movie just enjoying each others company.

I love to smoke.....

BnBTobacco
11-09-2011, 08:15 PM
I smoke alone most of the time although I would love to have it with friends.

Sonic04GT
11-09-2011, 08:50 PM
I've only smoked with someone twice come to think of it.

First was in Iraq in 2008 (knew nothing about cigars then). On our days off mission, my buddy and I would sit on the front porch of our CHU and smoke a cigar while listening to music and playing poker. Good times. Actually kind of miss it. Our team leader had a humidor, although I don't think he knew anything about maintaining cigars because they were super dry. He would let my buddy and I just grab a cigar of our choice. I remember cutting them with our knives and spitting out tobacco the entire time :r I also recall inhaling a little bit because I was a complete rookie and feeling sick to my stomach the rest of the night.

Second time recently with my little brother who doesn't smoke but begs to try a cigar every time I see him so I gave him a Punch and he enjoyed it. He's 17 so he won't be a smoke buddy any time soon haha Unfortunate because he lives with my mom and she has a nice porch for smoking!

ApexAZ
11-09-2011, 10:41 PM
I prefer to smoke with friends, but I smoke alone often.

Lanks85
11-09-2011, 11:30 PM
Not too many of my friends smoke cigars, so 95% of the time I smoke alone. It would be nice to have someone to BS with about this hobby more often. -(P

DPD6030
11-10-2011, 07:05 AM
I normally smoke alone not because I want to but mainly because I have no one close and no cigar bars/shops in my area.

Steve
11-10-2011, 07:06 AM
Put down the phone and get on the plane Andrew!

irratebass
11-10-2011, 07:15 AM
Put down the phone and get on the plane Andrew!

9:30 busta......he has 15 mins!!! lol

Lot of lonely smokers in here, that's kinda sad.

ktblunden
11-10-2011, 07:55 AM
I do most of my smoking alone at home, but there are some people (kind of) local to me that I can meet up with once or twice a week if I choose to. It's cool hanging out and being social, but the hour drive each way makes it an occasional thing for me.

gbum
11-10-2011, 08:34 AM
90% social