GrumpyOleTroll
10-09-2010, 10:51 AM
Well the Troll is back hopefully for good again.
For those who dont know whats gone on but do know me I have gone through hell and back the past 6-8 months and I think I am finally seeing the light.
I was told at Christmas that I would be going through a divorce, a 10-12 hr drive is really no fun with someone who has decided she wants you dead and you have your children in the back seat wondering why mommy and daddy spent the week in different condos...I had 3-4 weeks to find a new place and I was not going to uproot my boys again so I had to beg barrow and steal to keep them in the school they wanted to be in with thier friends.
My new ex decided a good job and family here in KS wasnt as important as sponging off her dad in WA State so she took my daughter and 2 stepdaughters who I had grown close to after 7 yrs 2000 miles away. Tell me that she would return our truck for me to have and she wouldnt go after anything from me as long as I didnt fight the move and I was in my daughter's life...well..the truck got repo'd because she couldn't afford to bring it back, I am sending her 1/4 of my paycheck for cs and makes it really hard to be part of my daughter's life.
I still have a good job, my 1st ex wife has really stepped up and I get alot more time with my oldest who lives with her and my family have really stood behind me.
I learned that my cigar hobby wasnt anything more then 1) something to have in common with her dad, 2) a escape from her drama and now 3) its a reward for taking time to sit back and relax.
I dont have nearly the collection I once had and I dont get to spend nearly the time I did at the lounge but the time and cigar I get now have a completely different meaning to me.
Now for those who dont know me..I am the Troll and have some VERY good friends here that have been there outside of this forum.
I hope I can add to the mad house and get back in the flow.
The Troll
For those who dont know whats gone on but do know me I have gone through hell and back the past 6-8 months and I think I am finally seeing the light.
I was told at Christmas that I would be going through a divorce, a 10-12 hr drive is really no fun with someone who has decided she wants you dead and you have your children in the back seat wondering why mommy and daddy spent the week in different condos...I had 3-4 weeks to find a new place and I was not going to uproot my boys again so I had to beg barrow and steal to keep them in the school they wanted to be in with thier friends.
My new ex decided a good job and family here in KS wasnt as important as sponging off her dad in WA State so she took my daughter and 2 stepdaughters who I had grown close to after 7 yrs 2000 miles away. Tell me that she would return our truck for me to have and she wouldnt go after anything from me as long as I didnt fight the move and I was in my daughter's life...well..the truck got repo'd because she couldn't afford to bring it back, I am sending her 1/4 of my paycheck for cs and makes it really hard to be part of my daughter's life.
I still have a good job, my 1st ex wife has really stepped up and I get alot more time with my oldest who lives with her and my family have really stood behind me.
I learned that my cigar hobby wasnt anything more then 1) something to have in common with her dad, 2) a escape from her drama and now 3) its a reward for taking time to sit back and relax.
I dont have nearly the collection I once had and I dont get to spend nearly the time I did at the lounge but the time and cigar I get now have a completely different meaning to me.
Now for those who dont know me..I am the Troll and have some VERY good friends here that have been there outside of this forum.
I hope I can add to the mad house and get back in the flow.
The Troll